is this how all muslim men behave? or are supposed to be?
2007-12-03 11:02:40 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Ramadan
Not all, I see many Muslim women on yahoo answers and on myspace.
They are married and their husband allow them.
why would you make generalization when you just find one case?
2007-12-03 13:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by marhama 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
no its not.. my catholic friend at school doesnt have a myspace cuz his mom doesnt think its safe and hes like 14 or 15.. a lot of my friends dont have myspaces cuz their parents are over protective and they are christian.. last year my friends boyfriend did not allow her to have a myspace at all because he would think a guy would want to hook up with her and she'll break up with him, and the man was not muslim. i hardly use myspace any more anyways, id rather come here than there. but i wouldnt blame the guy who doesnt allow his wife to have a myspace or yahoo answers, it has a lot of freaks, so who knows.. she should stop doing that behind her husbands back or tell him that all her friends are girls or he can moniter what she does.. so it doesnt have anything to do with religion, i know plently of muslims with a myspace and go to y!a.
2007-12-03 13:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by uniqu3(skyline) 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not how all Muslim men behave or should behave.
You got many excellent answers.
In most things which are basic to Islam, we Muslims are in agreement. There is some things that we disagree on. Some Muslim women might not like going on the internet. I know that some Muslim women think that it is wrong to have any contact with any man on the internet-unless he is a relative. The thing is that we women can have contact with "foreign" men (men who are not muharram(not our relatives) ... BUT it MUST be in accordance with the teachings of The Faith. The contact that we have with them must be for valid Islamic reasons and in a way which is not seductive. We can not make friends with men on the internet.
2007-12-04 07:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well it really doesnt have anything to do with religion; i am muslim and yet i have a myspace and a facebook and i go on yahoo answers. There is nothing wrong with that and no one tells me i cant. its not like i do anything wrong on it and my morals dont change when i go on it. You should ask your friend and see why her husband wont let her. Maybe he is just really overprotective of her or had a bad experience with it. You should really get her to talk to her husband and really figure things out. But just remember, its his personality that is getting in her way and not religion ...
2007-12-03 12:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by DD 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband doesn't want me being on Myspace either and I don't get on as that website freaks me out. The last time I had a myspace some guy was stalking me. So I deleted it. As for Y&A my husband hates me being on here but he allows me to do so since we won't have Internet in his home when we go back to KSA. As a Muslim woman and as the wife of a Muslim man she is obligated to obey her husband and not go behind his back. If a spouse goes behind their other's back then the marriage isn't built on trust. It's built on lies and secrecry. I'm sure her husband has reasons for not wanting her on Myspace or Yahoo Answers. It depends on how strict the Muslim husband is and how he was brought up.
2007-12-04 02:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by wolfkarew 4 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Does Britney's ex-husband Kevin represent a perfect example of "every" man in the USA?
Is he the example of the modern American male? If no why not? I mean if he does it why cant we say every single male in America is the same?
I am a Muslim and I am on Yahoo Answer, what does going online have anything to do with religion in the first place?
If her husband is a control freak that does not make every single Muslim man on earth the same.
It is common sense and I will not go on explaining more then this.
2007-12-04 00:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by ilga6wah 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
That has got nothing to do with Islam nor muslim. The problem lies in your best friend's husband, not the religion.
2007-12-06 00:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by luffy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-06 17:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asalam Alaykum,
My husband does not allow me on those sites ethier, lol (well he dont care about yahoo answers but he HATES myspace. He feels it sparks fitnah. Even though you can you do private settings he just feels like their are to many men on it and also many bad girls. As his wife I listen to him. He is happy and in the end he is right. A good Muslim woman should not be playing around on myspace and such! This is the way a Muslim man (any man) woudl act if he truly loves his wife. I am sure their are men who really dont care but she should be happy her husband cares to protect her like he does. I can not believe she sneaks and does that though, haram! Allah alim.
2007-12-03 15:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. This is your friend and her husband, not all Muslims. It's funny/interesting that you ask, because I know a christian woman whose husband made her delete her myspace account because some guy made a comment on her page (no frickin lie).
2007-12-03 11:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by sMiLe 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
While reading the answers to this question, I noticed one distinct thing. While other muslim woman are answering the question and saying that not all muslim men are like this.... the way they are answering bothers me. Their men "allow" them to come to answers. My man doesn't "allow" me to do anything. I am my own person. He cannot forbid me to do anything. Through mutual respect and love, their are certain things that I (and he) would not do, like cheat, or otherwise behave inappropriately. And I would of course respect and take into consideration any opinions or reservations he has, as he would me, but we don't "allow" each other to do anything.
I guess that is just my opinion and to each their own. If you are happy and content in your situation then so be it.
2007-12-04 11:05:47 · answer #11 · answered by Aimee R 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋