How do you view a woman who is still a virgin and doesn't want to give away her purity until after marriage to one man only?
2007-12-03 10:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She's amazing!!! A real treasure!
2007-12-04 00:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with "mun". I view her as a woman who knows what she wants.
I DO NOT assign any additional morals, purity, standards, values, self respect, virtues, or any other special characteristic that girls are taught that virginity is SUPPOSED to represent. Virginity is about sexual experience, or in this case, the lack thereof. Nothing more than that.
Anyway, it's a personal decision. Some people choose to wait, some people choose not to wait. I chose not to, but it really doesn't matter as long as your partner knows and understands your decision.
2007-12-03 11:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
purity has nothing to do with virginity. it has something to do with your values and morals and how good of a person you are.
your morals and values also have nothing to do with your virginity. you could be an evil person but still a virgin. you could be the girl who is doing everything but sex (the type where you lose virginity of course, since oral sex doesn't harm your virginity) with any man you meet, then how would you compare her to a girl who only slept with her - say 2 very beloved boyfriends without getting married. morals and virginity..no, they don't match.
But if a woman doesn't want to have sex with a man, doesn't feel ready, has her own first sex fantasy, that's totally her decision and respectable as much as a woman who wanted to sleep with her boyfriend before marriage. neither of them has lower or higher values. same.
2007-12-03 10:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by mun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that is good. You have morals and standars and you should keep them. Don't change them for anybody. If you find a guy and he doesn't like it, then he obviously isn't the right guy is he? I think it's awesome that you are a virgin... not very many girls make it til marriage now days! =]
2007-12-03 10:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means you are the one with morals and some good qualities to share with a husband. I think it is admirable to stay a virgin until you are married opefully the man you fall in love with is a good lover. Really though practice makes perfect and when you marry experiment all you want.
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2007-12-03 12:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think that if that is your strong belief, then you should do it. As long as you are doing it for yourself, not some pressure put on you by your family. I personally would not buy a car without test-driving it, if you know what I mean, but if it is your belief, then you should wait.
2007-12-03 10:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Deanrijo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think she is in for a big disappointment on the wedding night. Virginity is very over rated.
2007-12-03 12:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
good I waited and was very Happy I did. You may find some that think its old fashioned but it also shows that you have morals and have self respect keep waiting its well worth it
2007-12-03 10:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Its her choice. Whomever she marries must be okay with this and they must be in agreement. It happens for sure. I think its whatever ppl want.
2007-12-03 10:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by daisee1203 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I did it! My husband really appreciated it too. The men along the way might not, but the man you are with for a lifetime will!
2007-12-03 10:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by livewithoutfear 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋