so that other women would see what kind of guy he is.
Now he said he's going to post very personal stuff about me on PrudeGirl.com and I have NEVER cheated on him.
Do you think that's fair?
2007-12-03 06:31:11 · 27 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How did he find out that he was on that website??
Anyways, i dont wana sound insensitive but when you did something like that, it became a war for him.
If you just moved on and didnt do anything then you wouldnt be worried bout being in a situation like this wouldnt it?
2007-12-03 06:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by R-Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not really a question of "fair." It's a question of maturity. You could've kept your heartache to yourself and not posted anything. OR you could've at least been smart and not let him know you posted crap about him on there! Of course he would be mad about you publicly trashing his reputation, whether he cheated on you or not. That's a little too psycho-b*tchy and immature. But it's not right or justified for him to go posting stuff about you as revenge. The two of you should chill out and keep your e-mouths shut and deal with your drama in private so you both don't get into an ongoing war when you should just be getting the hell over him!
2007-12-03 14:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by nightmare hippie girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but I don't know how you can stop him. Revenge is not a good thing - it starts small and gets bigger like a snowball heading down a slope. Unless you want to wind up a nervous wreck, you should stop this now and take his details off of the website you went to, tell him, and say that you are through with the campaign, that you'll leave him alone and now you want to get on with your own life. If you mean it, he'll let go as well.
2007-12-03 14:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is fair. He obviously knows you posted him on a web site, and if he's cheating on you, he must not be into you and think you have faults too. We all do, just find someone your compatible with and leave the games out of it. God I'm glad I'm older and past all this crud.
2007-12-03 14:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kim S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha wow interesting sites you shouldn't have told him you put him on that site in the first place...
and no I think it's fair sure he shouldn't have cheated not the best way to break up but goodness obviously he wasn't the one...now that you put him on that site....everyone is going t think he is a terrible person just for cheating I mean if he ALWAYS cheats then do it but he wasnt the right one for you...get over it find a new man , find the one
2007-12-03 14:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question reads like you are a girl, but your name is Jon. So I'm confused.
Anyway, all's fair in love & war. You started it (public postings) so be prepared for the retaliation.
2007-12-03 14:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. You pose the risk of getting stuff posted about you when you post stuff about other people. Its called Karma.
which is exactly why I took away the post I put up about my neighbor on rottenneighbors.com.
2007-12-03 14:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by dormi22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was kind of immature of you to post him on some website. i honestly think that it's fair on what he's doing. you might not have cheated on him, but what you did comes with consequences.
2007-12-03 14:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All's fair in Love and War.
2007-12-03 14:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Danelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk ...... however it is not hard to imagine a cheater also being a vendictive liar. Anyway, what nice guy goes to prudegirl anyway. He's weeding out other potential jerks for you!
2007-12-03 14:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋