my best friend has been upset lately because she found out her boyfriend and the father of their 4 children, called his ex. what happened was my best friend called his ex to ask her to stop calling him because that was disrespectful to her and her kids. well, they got into a heated argument and my friend cursed her out basically. so about 2 weeks later, her man calls the ex to apologize...isn't that wrong of him to do that or does he still have feelings for his ex? my friend is really hurt by it...
2007-12-03 06:27:53 · 6 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok sexy, here's my answer,
So, your bf is hurt by her boyfriend calling his ex, right? (I just had to summarize for a sec).
I changed my answer after reading it again. Unfortunately, I agree with your bf's boyfriend. If there are any issues with his ex, he should deal with them. Now saying that, if she gave him an opportunity to resolve the issue and he 'let it go', then I don't blame her for stepping in......
The boyfriend probably doesn't have 'feelings' for his ex, he was probably just unhappy with how your bf went about telling her. If your friend had a 'cool' head and she just called her up and said 'hey, women to women, you had your chance, now let me have mine', her boyfriend wouldn't have had an issue with it. But when she's calling up, cursing her out, most guy don't want to be dating (or married) to a emotional trash-mouth lady. Tell her to 'class-up' a little and the dude won't want to talk to his ex.
Hope this helps......
2007-12-03 07:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Blue-eyed Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,, the guy did the right thing to apologize...
Your best friend needs to deal with her jealousy issues on her own...
And calling up someone to start a fight is never exceptable behaviour...
If she had problems over the phone calls, she should have taken that up with the boyfriend , not his ex...
What's disrepectfull to her and her four kids is that the boyfriend isn't married to her......
2007-12-03 14:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your friend and her man are married, there isn't anything she can do.
He shouldn't have apologized to the ex, but then again your friend should not have called the ex either.
Both need to examine their relationship and where it is going and do some serious communication.
2007-12-03 14:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by belen2499 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend made the first unwise move by calling and getting into it with the ex. What happened, was that her bf became extremely embarrassed by her behavior, felt it reflected poorly on him, and called his ex to apologize. He probably likes her as a sister. But mainly he thought your best friend behaved poorly.
2007-12-03 14:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if her ex has kids with his ex, she has every right to be calling his house. Even if they don't have kids, she has a right to talk to him. If your friends bf was bothered by his ex calling, then he would have told her himself to stop calling. That's probably exactly why your friend is so pi**ed.
2007-12-03 14:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is wrong with you? Can't find someone without a small army of kids. AND he can't keep his mind on one track. What are you doing in this relationship. Run girl, run!
2007-12-03 14:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋