I proper like this boy. And i thought he liked me back. He'd speak to me all the time and meet me every weekend (we go to different schools) He was obviously flirting with me and saturday night we flirted all night. Then my friend (a guy) was texting me just seeing what i was doing. He asked who and i told him and he seemed fine. But then about half an hour later he was looking at pictures of his ex saying she was fit and texting her!
Should i be upset? Or am i just overreacting??
2007-12-03 06:23:45 · 17 answers · asked by Tina=) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe overreacting, if he wants to be with his ex he is a moron and your ex is your ex for a reason. If you like him then move on with the relationship if not tell him to take a hike.
2007-12-03 06:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be polite at least, especially since this relationship hasn't quite developed yet, if I were you, I wouldn't have responded to the text from your male friend while hanging with this boy you're interested in.
Of course then he responded immaturely by texting his ex in front of you to see how you would feel and react, and no, that wasn't quite great of him in handling the situation properly.
So next time, just respect the time you're spending with this boy and think of it this way -- when on a date, you wouldn't want your date on his cell phone interrupting your time together with calls and texts, right? It's just common courtesy.
2007-12-03 14:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Fauna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wasn't okay with it. He obviously got jealous over you getting the text from another guy so he was trying to make himself feel better by being mean to you by proving that he could talk to another person of the opposite sex too.
I don't know how old you two are but his actions are pretty immature. If he is that jealous and you two aren't even dating yet, you had better be careful.
2007-12-03 14:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by msnite1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you made him jealous when your friend texted you, so he wanted to make you jealous back. Immature..yes..but I wouldnt be too upset about it. If he continues to talk to her after that night though, then that would be a red flag, it would seem he wanted to get back together with her. But wait and see, for now it just seems like he was jealous and wanted you to know it! Good luck!
2007-12-03 14:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Susan F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous of you texting your mate and was probably just saying those things about the ex to get back at you!
I think he likes you but be careful!Jealous guys can be awkward to be with!
xx
2007-12-03 14:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should, you guys aren't going out, officially, so it really wouldn't seem right for you to get mad. Beside if you think like a boy, they are likely to give you the same response... "We're not dating".
And in a way it seems like he is doing it on purpose, just to see you reaction or to get you upset.
2007-12-03 14:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by morena_00087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just jealous and he wanted to make you jealous too. Trust me. Boys are stupid that way. He just acted like he was fine because he didn't want to seem like he was theone to obsess over you. He wanted to be the other way. Just play it cool and act like nothing happened. And don't stop talking to your guy friend just because of the boy you like.
2007-12-03 14:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by choco_holic4444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't really have the right to be upset seeming he never told you that you two were something you can't really yell at him. now you know in the future what he;s like..and he'll probally do the same thing to his ex.
find a new guy :)
2007-12-03 14:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just trying to make you jealous. Ignore it, dont be upset.
2007-12-03 14:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are overreacting.Be your own self allow the things go in a normal way as they do in most cases.
2007-12-03 14:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋