basically i started my job today at a local hospital in the storeroom and i hate it..im being bullied already?

Question

they were very unkind to me saying they couldn't understand why someone like me got the job and didn't like the fact that one of their pals didn't get the job.........also my grandad died who was my best friend died 3 months ago in the same hospital i went to the ward where he died to deliver something and i broke down see me and my grandad were very very close and i lived with him and stayed with him most the time in hospital anyway when i broke down my colleague told me to grow up i told him the situation about my grandad and he laughed and said it was 3 months ago and forget about it...........they were so nasty to me i came home and cried and am still upset now what can i do i dont want to go back please help

Just to add i forgot to say it is actually my supervisor/boss who is part of it

Answer 1

Sounds like you are working with at least one person who is a real jerk. With a little luck though you'll find some coworkers there who are decent people.

Maybe as close as you and your granddad were, working in that hospital where he died might not be the best place for you. You are obviously a caring person, and 3 months isn't long for the hurt of his being gone to get to be less. You'll never "forget about it" but after awhile, you'll think more of the good times you had with him than you do feeling the hurt of missing him.

See how it goes after a month or so. If you still are hating it there, look for something else.

Good luck.

Answer 2

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss's I know how hard it is to go threw that my aunt who I was close 2 passed away a couple years ago and I still break down anytime I half to go to that hospital it never gets easier at least I dont think so. As for the people you work with they sound like a bunch of immature brats and Im suprised they got a job there!. My first job when I was 17 was at a hospital in the food dept and I had problems with the people as well they where all black girls im a white girl and the very first day they where putting me down because of it and picking on me. I just ignored them and hung in there kept my head held high and did a great job at my work I worked there for 2 years and when I left all the girls gave me huge hugs and cried about me leaving and im still ok with them to this day!. You just half to let them know they are not going to get to you and do the best damn job you can do!. Dont let people like that bring you down they are sooo not worth it trust me your better then that anyways. If they keep giving u a hard time talk to the boss about it that does help sometimes otherwise just ignore them and do your job once they see they dont bother you the will stop. Good luck and keep your head up.

Answer 3

i'm terribly sorry about your granddad. i know what its like to lose someone close to you.. and they're JERKS. 3 months is a very short time. show me the bastards and ill castrate them with a butter knife. (not actually haha but id like to)

anyways what you have to do is build a wall. (not as in be in solitude, loner type). no matter what act content. not happy. you can if you want but ALWAYS act content even if you're dying on the inside. do your job. be kind to your patients, but those asssholes at work, be content. kill them with niceness. i do the same at work.. cuz these people just piss me off. and by doing that, they cant judge me cuz they dont know the real me, and they're not getting any satisfaction.
hope this helps a bit =]

Answer 4

You have set yourself up to be let down. You held all of this animosity up, went to the place you had feared, and broke down when it all crashed around you. You hoped others (strangers) would sympathize. The real world shows you why you cannot bring your emotions with you. Thi, in my opinion is as much your fault as theirs. Granted, they could've been a bit nicer. You need to wear your emotions less on your sleeve and stop expecting others to make you feel better, they won't. You sound like you need counceling. Take it upon yourself to go out and speak with someone who will take the time to listen, give suggestions. If it is that unbearable, do not go back. When you stop counting on others to make you feel better, you will get the help you need. Good luck.