Me and this guy are really close and good friends.We have known each other for awhile now, and are enjoying what we have. We really like each other too.HE asked me would I **** him when I was ready, because I'm a virgin, and he's not.I told him I would do it when we were out of high school. Now he's expecting that he will be the first one I do it with when I'm ready. Do you think that was a wise decision? I told him I could meet someone else by then, but he's reamining positive. Sometimes I question him wanting to be my friend just to stick around for sex, but I'm trying not to doubt him, becaus ehe's so sweet, and caring of me.What do you think???
2007-12-03 01:38:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have so much in common.I let him borrow things from me.WE shared a a kiss.we text ALOT,and stay on the phone all night.HE's freaky and I like that, but I tell him when to stop,and he respects that.Even though he's not a virgin, he respects me,and honors everything I feel, but thoughts creep into my head, about him just being like he is for the sex. I don't think he's truly like that. I think I'm in love with him too.
2007-12-03 01:51:05 · update #1
Don't sleep with him save it for Mr right, Dont give it away like any other girl you have it keep it till you find Love. not a friend save it for the right one. If he's a ture friend he'll understand
2007-12-03 01:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if hes going to stick around for that long, it cant just be because of sex in the fututre, he must really like you. and the fact that he asked when you were ready and didnt try to force anything shows he cares...hopefully. good luck with everything.
2007-12-03 09:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you do it with whoever you want, whenever you want. The first time is not something you can have twice in this life so you'd better be sure with who you do it with. Don't do it with someone because you arranged it that way. Good luck.
2007-12-03 09:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by fallenfromgrace80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he just came out and asked that question without showing that he really loves you, (and you know what i mean by really love) then it just sounds a little cheap or what have you. Don't waste your time on someone who just wants to do it to do it. Wait until you TRULY love someone and it will be sooooo great. **I did. =)
2007-12-03 09:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c'mon girl i know you are smarter than a 5th grader. this guy doesn't give a rat's *** about you. he is beeing sweet to you so he can be the first one to have sex with you. you don't need a friend like that he is just as bad as having an enemy
2007-12-03 09:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...sounds like a creep to me....what kind of a "friend" would talk to you like that? I would get new friends and for goodness sake, do not promise yourself to anyone like that!!!
2007-12-03 09:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Emme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think his typical male mentality is nasty......they always think of sex....i say you should tell him you decided that you dont want to leave it for him because u just dont think you can have sex with you BEST friend just to test him and see how he reacts .....this way you find out his true side and no wether hes a real friend whos just attracted to you or just a mindless jerk like 90% of males :) hope i helped let us know wat happined
2007-12-03 09:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by kOOky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should watch out because if U take longer than he wants he might rape U
2007-12-03 09:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that sounds a little shady to me, i think because he's not a virgin, that's maybe not such a good idea
2007-12-03 09:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by Yo Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that was a poor decision. promising yourself to a man who may only be using you for that.
2007-12-03 09:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋