Sometimes i get into these modes where i just think about my current situation with my ex and my stomach gets all notted up even though its going ok. She wanted to be more than friend with me with out having the relationship obligation because she doesnt want to balance a boyfriend on top of her school work ect, this isnt exactly what i want, but for me its better than just giving up on it, it just seems like she is getting more distant and it is kinda tearing me up. I want to have a closer relationship with her like we had before we were official but i dont know how to get that back and it seems like thats all i been thinking about lately is how to get what we had a few months ago back and how i might be making her more distant. You guys ever think like this? How did you handle it?
2007-12-03 01:20:38 · 1 answers · asked by Baseballer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fight for a relationship based on unconditional love, instead of conditional. Right now, you've given her up right? Your not hoping to get married, have kiddos, and die in her arms right? Then be their for her, help her thru life, help her and you understand some sort of purpose in all this madness. Anything less then that is you pining over the old, and her doing the same f'in thing, lets just say you can hope for something else then what society has thrown at you, problem is you have to be stronger then society taught you....
2007-12-03 02:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋