I'm 18 and I've neve had any kind of relationship or even a fling - I've still not had my first kiss! In fact I've only met a handful of guys I liked before, is this normal? is anyone else the same?
I've kind of given up on meeting someone now lol at least I don't expect it to happen, but it doesn't happen when you expect it does it?
2007-12-03 00:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are certainly normal. My wife could say the same until she was 26. There are ladies much older than you that can say the same and then there are girls your age who have 3 children with 3 different last names.
And yes, it usually happens when you are not expecting it.
2007-12-03 00:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tim C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be you are shy and are waiting for the guy to talk to you first & approach you, well, most men are just as shy & clueless on what to do or say, so alot of times you need to be the strong one & at least initiate the casual talk & then bring it around to casual flirting. Men need flashing lights sometimes(they don't really need all of the responsibility of pursual- they get burnt out on rejection or are afraid of it after a few rejections)so give them a break and let them know in a nice subtle way that you are at least friendly and open. If that does not work, pick one that you "know" well enough to know you are interested in :him" and ask him out-then pay.
Good Luck!!
2007-12-03 08:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep its normal not everyone can have their first kiss at under 18. there are lots who have never dated. its not a big deal but it might mean you may be extra nervous when you do finalyy have one the older you get.. and yes it happens most of all when you least expect it has happened unexpectedly about 3 times to me lol really surprising
2007-12-03 08:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by allaboutme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe You Arent Putting Yourself Out There Enough...
2007-12-03 08:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by pink_is_perfect13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand im 18 and i had one boyfriend and it lasted a month cause he was a pussy. i hang out with all guys so i don't have to date them. but its normal. you don't want to rush into things with people you don't know. so stay single and work on your game and skills so when the time comes you have a lot to offer. virgins also stay tight. lol
2007-12-03 08:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by spedhottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal. (But who cares)
Normal in America is to start liking boys at 11. Have sex at 13, and get pregnant by 15.
You don't want that...
Your situation is not normal, but is much better.
Focus on your life... you are doing good.
2007-12-03 08:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go looking for someone, every time you do that it'll be the wrong person. Just be yourself and live your life and I promise you at the right time someone will come around.
2007-12-03 08:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still have a long life ahead of you, don't gave up and always think positive no matter what happen.
2007-12-03 08:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by gafsani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well done to you, good things come to those who wait.
Don't rush wait for the right person to come up
2007-12-03 08:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by SMB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is kinda good because you are taking your time with your relationships. Find someone you love.
2007-12-03 08:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋