I really am clueless as to whether she is Muslim or not. I will assume she is.
Why does she tell so many false things about Islam?
i.e. If a Muslim man marries a non Muslim woman then the marriage is not valid until the couple has sex. If they don't have sex on their wedding night without a just reason(the wife is on her period) then the marriage is nullified.
just one among SO many things she says that are not correct and false to a degree of dangerous levels. Not only does she claim they are truth she fails to EVER quote Quran or hadeeth.
2007-12-02 20:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Ramadan
Well redriver, Islam can only deliver a message, it can't force people to follow it. What you speak of is not prescribed in Islam and really has nothing to do with my question.
Funny thing is one of my best friends is from the Philippines and confirmed this is not law there either....every place has it's fools.
2007-12-02 22:23:14 · update #1
Actually it is outed not ousted. Ousted means to eject from a position. Outed, which I used by intention, is slang for being revealed.
You don't need to have Quran memorized to use it nor should you be instructed by anyone to ignore hadeeth for now. This is not a clever idea.
Your husband is right on one thing that you shouldn't use the internet for all of your learning. You shouldn't use him either because if it is him who is giving you these answers he is gravely mistaken on so many subjects though some of the things you post may be near correct or even correct. What I don't get is why you are even here when you told me that your husband doesn't like you to be here?
The ONLY information I ever use here in the religous q's is information I received from a scholar. Since I live in a Muslim country that is easy for me to get.
I also didn't say you were not a Muslim, I said you were a Muslim.
The point is sister is that you are blindly following your husband who is
2007-12-03 02:41:27 · update #2
not a scholar and has made that extremely clear in the things you claim to quote from him. There are books of fiqh, fatwas, tafseer etc etc that are available to all of us and no one, including your husband, should tell you not to read them.
And I don't doubt your husband is not a liar but by your answers about your marriage ceremony it is clear he is not honest with you because the things you said happened are NOT accurate as to what should happen.
May Allah guide you. Fear Allah. May Allah reward you and each of us.
2007-12-03 02:44:27 · update #3
It is not required to take shahada in Morocco if you are a female non Muslim marrying a Moroccan Muslim man.
2007-12-03 02:46:54 · update #4
This reminds me of the last scene from "Invasion Of The Bodysnatchers" where the woman is identified as not one of "them" and "outed".
2007-12-03 03:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
Yes I too was thinking the same thing. And that quote of HERS can't be correct. It doesn't matter if they have sex on the wedding night or however long it takes. Maybe she is a new muslim and is misinformed. But the first thing she should have learned was that it is a sin to speak on Islam if you really don't know. We all have an obligation for education.
Humdulillah
Allahu allum
2007-12-03 02:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by ~~Rainbow Water~~ 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe this person is a Muslim. If she is she has not been taught well. I would assume that if what she says were true then the adoul would make sure the Muslim man were aware of it. I am non-Muslim and just married a Muslim man and the only thing required other than all the paperwork to get married in Morocco, was our signatures.
2007-12-02 22:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Someone else just have made a question about wolfkarev's habits since she likes to misinform ppl about her life and Islam in general. Sometimes she is an atheist, sometimes she claims to be a muslim, sometimes she is a muslim for a year, sometimes only for 2-3 weeks.
She does not tell us the truth or has serious propblem. I am saying this without any malice, really.
I have seen some contradictions here: her husband does not allow her to use the net but she is here.. her husband is so right but how can she know that??
sarah: "i live in morocco which is an Islamic country" - haha, you made me laugh too.. please don't joke.. your sheik? aaaah.. come on..
wolkarev: i think you have to decide which story of yours to continue.. are you a new muslima or an atheist or a muslima for a year or 3 weeks? do you have a huband or no?
i have seen your "advice" to that poor young guy or girl in the other question.. You can not blame the guy and tell him that ALlah (SWT) made you alone, AStagfiruAllah, you can not tell this to him!! You don't know this!!
please do not say anything about an Islamic fact till you don't understand the whole point.
First you have to learn about Tawheed.
2007-12-03 08:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by ~ Noora ~ 4 · 4⤊ 6⤋
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2017-02-16 19:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
salam 2all,
sister wolfkare, i did see somethink funny goin on there! i was goin 2say something 2u! but i said 2my self ill leave it in Allah talas hands bcoz i didnt want 2 hart u in anyway... anyway Allah tala knows best... the only thing i believe in is the holy Quran, not in what anyones husband says... some sisters husbands lie... i neve believe a sister if she says "my husband told me". iv seen this a lot... plz 4give me if i upset u in any way...
u dont have 2have sex on the night u get married...
2007-12-03 02:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
AAAHHHHHH I missed the most recent thing you are referring to...hmmm...Oh, well. It is true that what she says is quoted from her husband it is often wrong.
salaam alaykoum
2007-12-03 12:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sassafrass 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's ousted not outed. I don't have anything from the Qur'an as I haven't memorized any of it minus 4 Suras in Arabic. I don't have any Hadiths because my husband says I should concentrate on the Qur'an before reading the Hadiths and he doesn't want me reading them until I can read Arabic. I trust my husband in everything he says and he is NOT A LIAR. I also told him what you told me in the e-mail and well he basically said your misinformed on everything and that I shouldn't listen to people on the Internet which I don't. As to me proving that I am Muslim explain to me why I need to do so? ALLAH(Subhanna wa ta'ala), my husband and my mother in law know I'm Muslim and that's good for me. I feel sorry for you really if you think I'm a liar. Hopefully you'll be set straight. You'll see that I'm Muslim on the Day of Resurrection Insha ALLAH. I am slowly gaining more knowledge by asking my husband questions about something I don't understand and he is more then happy to educate me correctly. I realize it will take time to learn everything about Islam but I know a lot more even before I reverted then I ever knew in my life. If I hadn't learned anything about Islam I would never have reverted to this religion 1 year ago.
2007-12-03 02:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by wolfkarew 4 · 4⤊ 11⤋
loool @ her answer, for sure she's a non-muslim... but she's really funny !
2007-12-03 02:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 10⤋
Here in the Philippines, if a muslim marries a non-muslim, they are killed and dragged through the streets.
2007-12-02 21:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 16⤋