How to help others become Christian?

Question

My parents are not Christian... My dad is actually a Buddhist so he is set in his "ideas." What is the best way to help them become Christians...?? Other than the obvious tips like be a good Christian witness...Pray that God opens their hearts...

Answer 1

I think the first step is leading a strong Christian life and really leading by example that you follow Christ. That means forgiving others, not being a hypocrite, not judging others, etc. I think a lot of Christians don't do this very well and it turns people off. Nobody takes an unforgiving hypocrite very seriously.

Then the next step is to pray and reach out and be their friend. A lot of times this will get them to drop the "I don't like religion" shield. Invite them to a church social, a retreat, or something similar. Go out with them and have some fun (as long as its clean)! You need to start out with something light. I wish I could recall the verse, but the Bible talks about believers who need "milk" before they can handle "meat."

Then after you've developed a meaningful relationship or friendship, then you move onto the next step - talking to them about who Jesus is, and the critical importance of following him.

Even though you have parents, you still might not have gone through these steps with them yet, and still might not have that friendship that I talked about. Admittedly, its much more complex with parents than with strangers or new accquaintences. Nevertheless, I'd give it a try and see how it goes.

Good luck! God bless! :)

Answer 2

Winning souls to Jesus Christ is one of the greatest occupations in the world today. Proverbs 11:30. Although there are no hard and fast rules to insure success in this work, there are some general principles that will prove extremely valuable. When you witness, it is spiritual warfare. Before you go into battle put on the whole armor of God one piece at a time from Ephesians 6:11-18.

It is of first importance that the soul winner himself be spiritually healthy. He must be constantly feeding on the Word. He must spend much time in prayer. He must be yielded to God. He must confess and abandon any cherished sins. By thus walking in the Spirit, the Christian will find that the Lord will provide opportunities for effectual witness. This is undoubtedly the Golden Rule of soul winning "Live close to God." Matthew 4:19. Remember your life is a continual witness - Good, bad or indifferent.

Answer 3

The obvious tips you mention really are the best ways there are to help someone become Christian, though you may not like that answer. Anything more overt tends to drive people away instead of doing the opposite, and in any case, you can't force someone to change their beliefs. Why would you want to, though, anymore than you would want someone else to forcefully change your beliefs? If God is love and love is the center of Christ's message to the world, then isn't the best thing you can possibly do for your father spiritually to love him? Be content with that love, and let God and your father handle the rest.

Answer 4

I did. I studied Mithraism, Zoroastrianism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Judaism, Islam, LaVeyan Satanism, Wicca, different countless forms of paganism, and various distinctive mythologies (Egyptian, Greek, Roman, Celtic, and Norse). I additionally studied what distinctive Christian denominations have self assurance, examine the Bible, researched early Christian writings, and consider works by using countless theologians and Christian apologetics. i did no longer replace right into a Christian till a sprint over 3 years in the past, whilst i replaced into virtually 26, so I had virtually nineteen years to examine different religions, philosophies, and mythologies. ideal now, i'm examining Druidism and Taoism. I additionally plan to make a learn of Kaballah, Sufism, and Ba'Hai finally. i comprehend the basics of each, yet i decide to do a deeper learn of them.

Answer 5

I will tell you what was told to me when I asked that very question to a Christian,, before my family joined me..

Go to church
show the change God's Love has made in your life,, and yes pray that God opens their heart,, They will see the Love of God through you and when they do,, will realize that there is something missing in their life,, And will want to learn more about God,,

All you can do is plant the seed of salvation and let God to the rest...

Answer 6

It is best not to pressure anyone to change their religion. Since your dad has already chose a religion, that makes it a little more difficult. Just try to talk to them little by little about Christianity. Don't make them feel like they HAVE to like your religion, and don't argue with them about it. Maybe leave some verses from the Bible about God around the house for them to somehow find. Also, since it is nearly Christmas time, see what your church is doing for Christmas activities. Maybe you could see if they are interested in going with you to an event as a family for Christmas. Even if it involves your church. Just be patient and wait. You can't force anyone to choose, but you can help and lead them to. It's their final decision though. I hope that helps.

Answer 7

Share gently your experiences and opinions. Don't be pushy or too judgemental. (Everyone is judgemental to an extent, but try to be understanding and tolerant of people's shortcomings.) You may even quote the Bible, but choose quotes that are poetic and beautiful, and applicable to the siutation, rather than "preachy" and "Bible-thumping". Invite them to some concerts and activities that aren't just religious in nature, or where children are performing. Many churches have community groups meet there to exercise, talk, comfort others. Perhaps invite them to your church for one of these events, and hope that they are drawn to the warmth and closeness, and eventually the message. Good luck!

Answer 8

I'm not meaning to offend you, but have you tried your parent's religions? Why is Christianity so great? You come across as rather set it your own "ideas." Maybe instead of feeling you need to open your parent's hearts to God you should try opening your own to loving them as they are.

Try it. You might find a lot more peace within yourself.

Answer 9

Such hubris! Let your dad live with his Buddhism. I'm sure it has worked very well for him. The arrogance of wanting to convert others always amazes me. In this day and age, do you honestly believe anyone living in a developed country has NOT heard about Jesus and Christianity? Anyone? How is making them become Christian of any help?

Can't be sure if you are really serious or just trolling for controversy. I always wonder when someone has fewer than 100 points.

Answer 10

Do you know if they want to become Christian? If not leave it at that. You have no right to impose your beliefs on someone and expect them to change to your religion,you will only make things worse for you and them.