I am 21 and dont live with my parents any longer, my mom called me today and told me that my dad and new stepmother have told my little brother that just turned 11 that they dont love him and want him to leave to live with our mom but they wont let him leave to live with her until june when school gets out, my dad plays mind games and has 10 kids 5 of them want nothing to do with him 3 are forced to live with him because of his mind games and 1 my 6 year old sister is forced to go see him and she wants nothing to do with him. Any advice I could give my brother to hang in there, or to my mom who is flipping out???
2007-12-02 16:59:20 · 6 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the only thing i can think of is for someone to contact his school counselor and let him or her know the family situation, and ask if they can make it a point to talk with your brother to see what is really going on in the home. if the counselor would be willing to talk with your brother, maybe it would help greatly.
emotional abuse is the worst kind... i'm so sorry your brother is going through this... your father is a waste, that's for sure. and looks like he married the wicked witch of the west.
it's a shame.. im very sorry for your brother.
2007-12-02 17:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there any good reason your mom can't get him out of there sooner? Whats so terrible about changing schools at mid year, when the alternative is living with abusive "parents." If what you are saying is true, get him out. If he's that bad, your mom should go to court and have visitation for the sister reevaluated too.
2007-12-02 17:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is common for you mom to be feeling this type - she is in all probability purely petrified of dropping you. yet once you reassure her which you adore her and there is not any way that Allison is going to take her place it could make issues greater clever. additionally component out to her that Allison is advantageous to you once you're over at your dad's residing house and easily that that's greater clever than somebody who's terrible to you. you do no longer ought to selected between them after all your mom is your mom and constantly would be. If Allison makes your dad happy and she or he's advantageous to then you definitely there is not any reason so you might no longer be happy for them. I even have a step-daughter who became 7 as quickly as I met her dad - she will have the means to be 15 this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. Her mom felt slightly placed out first of all because of the fact all she observed became me, yet that settled down and we are truly good pals. She lives 450 miles away yet we nevertheless chat on the telephone and spot one yet another at trip time. She by probability referred to as me mom as quickly as too, it felt kinda advantageous even though it became in no disrespect to her mum. i do no longer see Allison starting to be bossy in any respect, if something she will have the means to in all probability be petrified of you accepting her into your loved ones as she sounds like a advantageous individual. I went directly to have 2 babies or perhaps with the fact that my step-daughter had 2 different brothers me and her dad gave her her first little sister and yet another brother to boot. be happy on your dad yet have the communicate alongside with your mom. wish all of it works out.
2016-12-30 10:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off try to reassure your brother that you , your mom , and other brothers and sisters love him, and i think it would be a good idea to talk to social services to see what can be done , sound like your dads a real jerk. SORRY!!!!!!
2007-12-02 17:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by benthr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's child abuse, and you need to call Child services. Your brother is going to get messed up emotionally if this continues for long.
2007-12-02 17:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Brofo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely child abuse..dissolve all ties with this 'father' and his other half immediately and don't ever let him into his life again.
2007-12-02 23:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by TT01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋