Were am I going?

Question

I am a 20 year old guy, and I guess I am lost. I do not know exactly were am I going in life. I still live my parents just started school about to finish my first semester of college and got a job. I blew off a whole year on not going to school. I feel old I feel I am to old to be living at home. I want to move out but can not see it. I have dreams and goals. My first few are
Get a job which I did
Save money and pay my bills
Get a personal trainer
Buy new cloth
Get a hair cut
Go on vacation
I was in a rut before, I was in this depressive state were I did not want to do nothing with my life. Now I want to, but I can not see it. Is it wrong? I want to be healtier I want to look good and be on my own. But I been living this life of being lazy and my clothing style sucks and to my self kinda guy.
Going from that to having a job money my own place and standing tall and looking good seems far from realistic for me. So I feel as if there is a future but some sort of force field stopping me

Answer 1

trust me all men feel lost at times, moving forward in life will take time,at this point in your life living with your folks isn't the worst thing in the world, there are benefits ,first off your never alone, second you can save a little money, third you can finish college, and fourth you have a stable foundation from which you can decide upon where you'd like to be after college, but if you feel the need to spread your wings further try finding a group of fellow student that would like to share an apartment, you've got to have a few stepping stones along the way before you take an even bigger step forward. good luck.

Answer 2

First thing you are young and your plans are perfect, keep going. In my personal opinion the best you can do is continue studying at college and alternate with a job still living with your parents until you graduate from college but you need to help your parents with bills. Please don't be depressed you have too many good things to do and enjoy the life in a healthy way. Buy some new clothes and get a nice hair cut and the vacations need to wait a few months so keep going and please don't quite college. Good Luck and love and respect your parents.

Answer 3

Say I never read this and thought you didn't have direction - you have lots of great direction.....its the same for everyone taking the 1st little steps.

Fitness is a daily thing - for the rest of ones life so pick something that you really enjoy tennis, biking, whatever and do it
and if you don't feel like it - don't beat yourself up just try again tomorrow. Always easier to do things you have picked and enjoy. - no matter what age!

Answer 4

uniting