My best friend has been going out with her boyfriend, now fiance, for 6 years. They havent had sex yet and she's worried. Her fiance is totally in love with her. You could see it in his eyes. They have been close to it but he just stops and says "bye, see you tommorow." is this normal?
2007-12-02 15:39:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he's saving himself...and avoiding temptation
2007-12-02 15:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very odd...I'm surprised that they've been dating for 6 years, are engaged and haven't had sex yet - maybe he is shy (still), maybe he has strong religious beliefs, maybe he has problems keeping it up/ erectile dysfunction and is ashamed and afraid, maybe he is on antidepressant drugs which kill your sex drive, maybe he is secretly gay and doesn't want to admit it, maybe he just doesn't like sex (really odd) - but if she is worried and has been with him for 6 years there should be no problem talking about it - she could ask him straight up if he doesn't take well to subtle hints and easing into the conversation - but this is peculiar, and I think everyone wants to know the reason. I'm worried too.
2007-12-02 15:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal? Depends on the people. There is no "normal" in this case. That said, this does not sound like a sex problem, it sounds like a communication problem. If she is interested in sex, though, she needs to be frank and discuss this with her man. It's that simple. What is abnormal is if this conversation has not occurred yet. If they are going to have a successful marriage, communication lines need to be open!!
2007-12-02 15:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be not be circumcised and feels uncomfortable in the "sex mode"
He also may be waiting until marriage.
Have you friend bring it up that they've been together for 6 years and are now engaged so is he waiting for marriage? if so, she's cool with it.
Honestly a couple together for 6 years and haven't had sex that's something to be proud of! It means they show their love in other ways instead of having to jump in the bed to prove their love.
2007-12-02 15:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by Music 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if he is a very religous person this is normal behavior. If not it is completely abnormal and I would be very worried if they plan to have sex after marriage but haven't had it before...
2007-12-02 15:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by brodis36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to wait until hes married not everyone wants to have sex before their married.its not abnormal hes probably waiting for the right time or something like that.
2007-12-02 15:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her bf keep asking sex from her, then she needs to worry. Did he change those words to " have a sweet dream..."
Why worry, talk it out.
2007-12-02 15:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some people just want to wait until marriage. I'm sure he'll come around within time.
2007-12-02 15:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by julesmartin85 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Somethings wrong with him. Most guys wouldn't put up with not getting it for that long, let alone be the reason for it not happening for that long!
2007-12-02 15:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may really want to wait. Few people still beleive that it is a gift.
2007-12-02 15:43:00 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋