Alright. So i have this guy friend and we've known each other for about a year and a half now. i met him in drama club and hes really cute! to hangout, hes been coming to my house to watch movies, and then we have ended up making out and dry-humping every single time. he is single, and i am as well. i really want to ask him out but im afraid to for some reason. i guess im afraid of rejection. im also afraid cause he's one of those guys that are very friendly with all his girl friends, like hugging all the time and stuff. but i really want to go out with him!! I need help.
2007-12-02 15:17:51 · 12 answers · asked by volleyballchicka1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's in drama club, at best he's a sissy--and at worst, he's a homosexual. If YOU have to ask HIM out, that only confirms it. Forget about him, and find a real man.
2007-12-02 15:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Restless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really O.K. for a guy to show affection to anyone. That may even be a PLUS in the relationship department. It sounds as though y'all may be more than just friends already. (unless he dry humps all his other friends as well) Your question is, Should I take it further? But the truth here is. there's two people involved. You may want to ask your friend in the plural form. Ex: Where do WE go from here? Do you feel WE should go further. He obviously enjoys your company. When you use the word WE...he'll understand that you have a interest in being exclusive companions.
2007-12-02 23:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he obviously likes you and since you seem to be good friends I think you should ask him to be your bf.....but don't get caught up with the friends with benefits thing and i wouldn't keep having him over to watch movies if you want a serious relationship...because sex can happen very quick especially if your already participating in foreplay. But then again he also sounds like kind of a flirt and a player.....it takes alot of experience to deal with this kind of man and you need to have alot of sercurity with yourself to not let his flirting with other girls get to you.....just be careful and try to hold off on sex if you really want to keep him around for a while...it's safer and you won't get hurt as badly if things don't work out
2007-12-02 23:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by stroberocksluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the dude out. Seriously, if you guys are always on each other, it sounds like he LIKES YOU and if he rejects you then he is a tool and you shouldn't be hanging out with him in the first place. If you ever have actual sex, use a condom, you do not need to be young and pregnant.
2007-12-02 23:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. You've gotten to all those things with him and yet you fear he might not share the same feelings for you. I tell you now, you should take chances on these certain things, if not, you'll just end-up regretting that you haven't taken that extra mile for him.
2007-12-02 23:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Marcus D. Vendetta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.If the sex is going to be the foundation of your relationship you will fail.Your already dating,so go to a movie or something.
2007-12-02 23:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by romadgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go out? Don't spend your life wondering. And just keep it simple. Don't try to do too much.
2007-12-02 23:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too late he already in humped you so you gave away your dignity! just lick ham off walls and eat pork.
2007-12-02 23:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by PASSIONS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if he and you are ready
2007-12-02 23:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Amber <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt if you would get rejected.....
2007-12-02 23:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋