is sex before marriage sin ????????????

Question

first im sorry for my english

i think sex before marriage is a sin back in the olden days they had no protection ,

in this day and age , god will probably say ok as long as we love that person and we respect them , since we have condoms and stuff , he probably doesn't mind

god probably said it, it was a sin back in the olden days because people can get pregnant , since they had no protection

am i wrong on this??????????
whats your thoughts?????/

Answer 1

It is wrong. Not only because procreation is a powerful gift from God, but because it stirs up emotions and creates a bond that is meant to be formed between two married partners. It is abusing a gift that God gave you.

If God wanted to change his commandment, don't you think he would tell everyone, so we didn't have to guess for ourselves. It seems like the latter option would lead to a lot of confusion.

Answer 2

I think God would see sex for entertainment as a sin because if you believe in God then you will probably believe that His purpose designing sex was pregnancy so avoiding His purpose is the sin.

Avoiding exchange of body fluids is also against the probable intention behind sex so that is also likely to be a sin.

On the other hand, if you don't believe in God as taught by the Catholic church then sex os great fun, very enjoyable.

And I think that sex is an excellent idea before marriage because it is for most people an important and litteral joining of a man and a woman but not everyone performs it the same way, not everyone has the same preferences and even the feel and touch of one person is not the same as another.

So wouldn't it be terrible to wait until you are already married and then find that you were sexually incompatable and did not enjoy sex together?

Better to test first.

Answer 3

If God hasn't made any revelations regarding the revocation of his commandments, then what makes you think he 'changed his mind'? God still views it as a sin. Just because you have protection doesn't mean a thing.

Sex is a sacred thing, designed for the purpose of procreation. We were commanded to multiply and replenish the earth. Children have the right to be born inside a marriage with loving parents, and today we are seeing more and more children born to single mothers, who thought they were 'protected' by condoms and birth control.

Sex is not to be taken likely. The purpose of sex is to create children, and that is the closest we can get to being a god. Creating.

How do you know God will say its ok? If you love and respect the person then why don't you marry them? And if you aren't planning on marrying them why have sex with them? What is the point besides pleasure? It's not supposed to be just about pleasure.

Answer 4

God is the same yesterday, today and forever and you know it and all the people who keep repeatedly asking the same thing over and over again know that sex before and outside of marriage is sin against a Holy God and it is also sin against each other. There are no loopholes people so stop trying to find one or make one. If you do not respect the Lord and do not respect yourself or the other person then you will suffer the consequences that are sure to come. How and what those consequences are no one knows but be sure there will be consequences because God will not be mocked.

Answer 5

you are wrong in order to know what God thinks you must read the Bible and not make up what you think is right and other school kids tell you they think is right.

In the Bible God specifically said to do not fall into the modern ways of the world.

Sex outside of marriage actually destroys marriage. That's right if you have sex with someone later on when you get married you develop expectations for your husband/wife to have the same abilities and likes as your former lovers.

It creates dissatisfaction ...What if your first lover was great in bed and the person you marry is not skilled at all.. Well then in your mind you will start making excuses that your not compatible , your not meant to be together eventually it becomes a mistake.

If we waited till marriage there would be less dissatisfaction and divorce, stds, babies with no families, abortion and single moms on welfare.

God knew what he was talking about and did not make a mistake.

Answer 6

Bible interpretation

God believes we are precious people and our mind and body are not to be taken lightly. In Proverbs 5.15-17 from the Bible it says:

'You should be faithful to your wife, just as you take water from your own well. And don’t be like a stream from which just any woman can have a drink. Save yourself for your wife and don’t have sex with other women.'

Here we can see that the married couple would have an intimate relationship because they share a level of relating that exists with no other person apart from their spouse (marriage partner). Sex defines marriage and to have sex with someone other than the spouse would be adultery (cheating on the spouse). Sex gives meaning to the marriage because limiting sex to one partner, which is the spouse, expresses commitment and encourages the couple to invest emotionally in each other because they know they will remain together until death they depart.

It has been established in the Bible that sex exists between the married couple and nobody else outside of the marriage. But what about sex before marriage, what does the Bible say about that? In 1 Corinthians 6.15-16 from the Bible it says:

'Don’t you know that your bodies are part of the body of Christ? Is it right for me to join part of the body of Christ to a prostitute? No, it isn’t! Don’t you know that a man who does that becomes part of her body? The Scriptures say, “The two of them will be like one person." With the power of the Holy Spirit, a person can resist sex before marriage. The Holy Spirit refers to God's Spirit, who lives in believers. Paul (apostle of Christ) explained the work of the Holy Spirit: 'we must not live to satisfy our desires. If you do, you will die. But you will live, if by the help of God's Spirit you say "No" to your desires. Only those who are led by God's Spirit are his children. God's Spirit doesn't make us slaves who are afraid of him. Instead, we become his children and call him our Father' (Romans 8.12-15). So by the power of God's Spirit a person can live a new life that they have not known before.


Blessings, I hope you make the right decisions

Answer 7

in the Bible premarital sex is a sin. in the old and new testiment. that means it still is a sin today. Premarital sex can screw up future relationships very badly. plus, it can take away from what God intended sex to be. and btw protection dosent always work. i know a lady who had 8 kids all on birth control, and with condoms.

Answer 8

I was brought up that having sex before marriage is a sin but with today's society it is a perfectly normal procedure.

Answer 9

Bible Question: Is sex before marriage a sin?

Bible Answer: Jellyfish are beautiful, almost transparent creatures of the sea. They can be found in all the world's oceans, and a few even inhabit freshwater. They have no heart, blood, brain or gills and are over 95% water. They are beautiful, but once you touch a jellyfish, you will receive a sting from their tentacles. Premarital sex is like a jellyfish in the water. It looks great. It feels great, but God calls it sin and current research shows that it leads to more unhappy marriages.
Was It Good For Us? Premarital sex, an act once condemned by society, is now encouraged. In fact, to be virgin is now considered to be an embarrassment. The comment "What is wrong with you?" was recently posed to a woman who was a virgin. It has become the accepted and in fact encouraged in our society. But this encouragement is not supported by recent research that shows couples are more likely to divorce.

Yet such "benefits" may be more wishful thinking than fact. Cohabitation may seem a good "trial run" for a solid marriage. But in practice, cohabiting couples who marry--many of whom already have children--are about 33 percent more likely to divorce than couples who don't live together before their nuptials. Virgin brides, on the other hand, are less likely to divorce than women who lost their virginity prior to marriage.

But we didn't inhale. Cohabitation is associated with other risks for young couples. Live-in boyfriends are far more likely to beat their partners than are spouses. And young adults who move in together, without being engaged to be married, are more likely to use cocaine and cigarettes after they start cohabiting than beforehand. All in all, muses Harvard sociologist Christopher Jencks, adult premarital sex "may ultimately prove to be a little like smoking dope in the 1960s. In retrospect, maybe it isn't so good for you after all."
"Was it good for us?" U.S. News and World Report, May 18, 1997

God Already Warned Us! This is no surprise to Christians. God warned us. Premarital sex is sin, and sin always has a consequence. The statistics in the U.S. News and World Report article do not report how many individuals are angry or remorseful because they had premarital sex. Marriage counselors see that in couple after couple. That is the message of 1 Corinthians 6:18.


hope this helps with your question good luck & god bless

Answer 10

Read Ephesians 5:5 and many others but yes sex before marriage is a sin it is refereed to in the Bible as fornication.

Answer 11

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