would you ever break up with a girl because you thought that you were hurting them?
my boyfriend broke up with me even though he says to still love me because he suffers from depression and tends to push me awya a lot. he can see that I'm hurt a lot so we are taking a break.
when guys do this (given my situation too) is it a way out or a real thing because he cares?
2007-12-02 13:12:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not in another relationship and said there was no one else. its been a week since we broke up and we've talked three times. once was in person and he was looking in my eyes the whole time and we kissed too. in his eyes he looks like he still wants me but then again I dont want to be a fool.
2007-12-02 13:19:49 · update #1
To be honest i think it is a little bit of both. By the sounds of it, he does care and doesn't want to hurt you, but maybe he's feeling a little hurt himself? That is if he's telling the truth about being depressed.
2007-12-02 13:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by lulu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can judge by his actions after, if he jumps into another relationship - then it was probably just a way out. But if hes trying to work things out and still keeps intouch then you know it was something real and should respect him for it. Feel out the situation and see how things go!
Good Luck!
2007-12-02 13:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by leighbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I thought I was hurting someone else because of my depression, I guess I would break up with them. Then again, if I loved someone, I would want to better myself and/or get well for them.
2007-12-02 13:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by mcq316 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋