Been seeing this lovely guy for a couple of months really nice easy rletionship get on well and just seeing where things go.... but i have had so many so called friends really go nuts over the fact he is black and i'm white!!!! what is the problem i really don't see it?
2007-12-02 13:09:09 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does treat me very well, and i have no intention of giving him up, was just wondering if it was me!!! obviously not thanks guys
2007-12-02 13:17:02 · update #1
milton b- i have noticed when were out together white guys do the whole eye balling thing can't stop them, but it wont stop me either
2007-12-02 13:23:03 · update #2
You will never see it and that is good. They are racist and you are not. You have to follow your heart and you may lose some friends, but stay true to yourself. It doesn't matter what someone's skin color is. It matters what kind of person they are. If he treats you well and with respect, then that's the most important thing.
Good luck!
2007-12-02 13:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im a black chick who is dating a white dude. I really don't care what people think. Sometimes I do think it's harder being a black women dating a white guy because the white guy has always been seen as the "better" man, But really, me and my bf have been dating for 2 years. We live in an apartment together and are very happy. Don't think too much about what people say. No matter where you go, you're going to to criticized so don't let it bother you now.
Good luck
2007-12-02 13:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Reese 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am half white and half Moroccan.
My boyfriend is black.
I love him dearly and race shouldnt play a factor in anyones relationship. As long as you are being treated right there shouldnt be an issue. The people you are calling your friends..are not really friends. It sounds to me like they are very IGNORANT people. We are all the same on the inside. If they were truly your friends, they would just be happy for you and see past the color of his skin. Keep strong.
Interracial Couples ROCK!! LoL
Good luck and dont listen to anyone!!
2007-12-04 04:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love see's no color, your friends aren't real friends if they cannot accept that you've found love amongst another race.
A real friend should be accepting of your partner as long as they treat you right and are a good person in general. It seems like your friends heads are stuck in the 1800's when slavery existed. It's shameful that such racism and prejudice still exists today.
Inform your friends that you're into this guy, things are great, and you're not going to stop caring about him just because he's black or because they don't like him because of his race.
2007-12-02 13:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be any problem at all. Unfortunately, we live in a world where stupidity and iggnorance are running rampant. If these people aren't real close friends, ignore/avoid them. If they are close friends, that could be a bit trickier. The way I see it, if my friends don't like the person I'm dating based on skin color, I don't want those people as my friend and I would be very clear as to why I don't associate with them anymore.
2007-12-02 13:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by mcq316 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with it. But a lot of people are closed mined. Your friends and or family may have a problem with it. If this is just another boy friend that will come and go, Then I don't think it is worth losing your friends and or family. But if he is someone that is really really special to you. Then hang on to him.
Would your friends have a problem if you were seeing a women?
2007-12-02 13:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Steve a 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a slight chance your children will look out of the ordinary----a mixture of afro-american and caucasian. All children are beautiful, but unfortunately our world is still not accepting of cross-racial features.
Also, the cultures and lifestyles of blacks and whites are very different. Unless you want to be in isolation, you are also marrying into each others' families. This can be very awkward.
2007-12-02 13:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by paanbahar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no problem. the only problem i see is your so called friends outlook on life. i am black and my wife is what some guys would call a blonde bombshell, sometimes when we go out i see how "white guys" look at me and her but she just flashes that big great smile and plants a great big kiss on my lips in front of them. i feel a lot better after that. when we first started dating her friends all said i was a loser, until one of them was in court for getting busted and saw that i was a lawyer they never said anything again. go for it girl!!!!
2007-12-02 13:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by milton b 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem. If you like him and he likes you, then that's all that matters. You should tell you friends to respect you and the person you are dating. If they can't do that, then you need to decide who is more important. But if they were really your friends they wouldn't be giving you any crap.
"Color and class is a false distinction: love isn't" from some halley berry movie
2007-12-02 13:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by ecstacy102488 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont listen 2 anybody if ur askin then there must b a problem they arent the 1s who r gonna be dating him u r do whats best 4 u an what u think is right by u and remember doing the right thing isnt always the smart thing
2007-12-02 17:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by crikket04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋