like if i txt him and he doesnt txt back for a long time does that mean hes cheating?
2007-12-02 12:36:15 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMFG.dont you hate that???
i dont think he's cheating tho,but he gotta knoe how to txt right back at u girl.
okay so ,in our very busy sched we get to find the time to txt them den they dont even txt back asap.wtf.
find a better bf
2007-12-02 12:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by verysexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its just means he is either busy at the moment or is unaware that he has received a text from you. Or maybe he has his phone off. I know that has happened to me a lot, So I know what you are talking about and no I don't think he is cheating. Try not to get to paranoid because thats what happens when women worry to much and start jumping to conclusions. I know thats what my ex did to me. she thought that i was hiding something when i wasn't, this happened during a time when i was spending time with my family and she text me something that would probably lead to her thinking that i was cheating on her and she dumped me two days after that, over nothing. I never cheated on her or did anything wrong. So yeah try not to worry about it and just ask him if he is and if he looks or sounds suspicious then try to find out if he is lying to you. Well if you need any advice on the situation then feel free to email me at gforceram@yahoo.com
2007-12-02 12:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by GFORCE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't jump to that conclusion right away, it doesnt seem very trustworthy. A healthy relationship is built on trust and giving your boyfriend the benefit of the douby. It's possible he could be doing something he shouldn't. Or maybe he is busy, his phone wasn't charged, he had stuff to do with work or school, or he is going through a hard time emotionally. Just talk to him...don't judge so harshly!
2007-12-02 12:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not neccessarily, sometimes the mobile network delays the messages causing a lag in response. Some days I don't receive a text that was sent until a day later. Frustrating I know! But it does not mean your significant other is cheating.
2007-12-02 12:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by not_a_chem_wiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all don't over react. There are lots of reasons why he might not be texting back right away.
1. He might be busy
2. Maybe he does not have his phone with he 24/7
3. Maybe he is slow at texting.
But if you think he is cheating then just ask so you will stop worrying.
2007-12-02 12:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. Or he is eating, sleeping, talking to a friend, talking to family, doing his homework, at work and not allowed or has no time to text, playing a game, reading, in the movies, doesn't have the phone with him, or didn't notice the text alert go off. Or maybe he's just taking a little break from a clingy, suspicous girlfriend.
2007-12-02 12:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Put yourself in his shoes. He probably has other friends, he txt's and haven't you ever been too tired to respond or pissed or busy or even in a three-way texting session and forget to text one of the people back.
There's a problem when he's taking days to txt you back not minutes or even a couple hours.
2007-12-02 12:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by word_scratcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, you are not what makes your boyfriends world go around. He has other things that he needs to attend to such as work, friend, or family issues. If text him chances are he is just busy he will probably text you back later. If you think that he should reply instantaneously to what ever you send him you run the risk of being obsessive, if you aren't already.
2007-12-02 12:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez it must mean he's cheating! It couldnt be possible that he went to the restroom, fell asleep watching tv, is working out or anything normal like that.
Dont stress over a missed text or two. Stress when you catch him in the act cheating.
2007-12-02 12:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by DaBestOneEva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. He may have something important that he's doing that he hasn't had a chance to do so yet. If this is a habit I would voice your concerns but don't be so quick to accuse him of cheating because he will be turned off. Just calmly state how you feel.
2007-12-02 12:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋