and would do anything to get him back. He tells me he still loves me and wants to start over but has got issues to take care of before he gets into another relationship. To which I comepletely understand. I have never felt like this torwards another guy before and it is amazing. He makes me feel so good inside and everytime I see him or talk to him I am grinning from ear to ear. I cry myself to sleep almost every night just because I miss him and I want us to be together again. I know this doesn't really have anything to do with my question, but does the truth really come out when someone is drunk? JW
2007-12-02 11:44:19 · 19 answers · asked by Single_Mommy28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very freudian idea. Adjasent with his theories, the truth lies within your subconcious, and when you're drunk, like when you're dreaming, you're more in touch with your subconcious, and the truth therefore is more freely available to oneself. Whether or not that comes out in what you say is another question. You do however lose a lot of inhibitions and say things you mean that you otherwise wouldn't. I'd say yes, most likely whatever he or you said that has made such an impact on you is probably true, however do bear in mind it could be drunken ramblings and therefore not mean a thing, but you'll think it will because of your emotional attachment. You're biased.
Could go either way. I recommend you're more specific.
2007-12-02 11:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has time to come around to tell you he loves you and have sex with you he has time to be there for you. Your never too busy for a relationship if you actually care about someone you make time for them. He already texts you, you guys are sexual, and you guys talk lots and see each other occasionally and that is what a relationship is, not having enough time is just an excuse. Maybe he doesn't want to be known as "officially dating" so he can keep himself open to other options. If he's confused let him decide whether he wants to be with you or not, being in the middle shouldn't be an option. Tell him that either we are friends or we are in a relationship, and tell him to choose one side because right now it sounds like he is using you for sex. Being just friends (no benefits/sex/kissing) is a good idea until you guys are more mature and know what you want.
2016-04-07 04:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to know if he feels like you do then stop calling him/ contacting him as much. dont stop, just do it less, see if he gets ahold of you more. just dont think it will all be ok, cuz it has a 50-50 chance of success. if he says he needs space then asking him to get together is probobly pushing him away. if he is serious about it then he needs you to be a friend right now, just listen to him and give advice with no pressure for him to get back together or if he loves you or not. friendship is the first step in love.
be a friend and if it is meant to be then it will happen.
good luck and i wish you both the best, hope this helps
2007-12-02 11:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by penguin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how you feel and to be honest when a person is drunk they always tell the truth anyway i no i do and 80% of the time thats the onlt time people tell the truth cause they to drunk to realize what they saying untill you confront them the next day....
2007-12-02 11:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by redbone * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't and as a matter of fact this sounds like a typical cop-out excuse, the kind of which I have used hundreds of times in my life. Move on, it isn't fair for you to wait forever and like the old adage goes, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-12-02 11:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Flavor Vortex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No when you are drunk you have false feelings. The truth is in being sober and loving yourself first then when you love your self you can love others and allow others to love you too.
2007-12-02 11:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by richard s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let go for right now, and and let the universe take over, focus on other things, and what ever is meant to be will happen. That is all that you can do.
2007-12-02 11:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying with him until you get closure, one way or another.
Yes, truth comes out when someone is drunk.
2007-12-02 11:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this is what u call true love!!! i feel great that u feel that way about him but u should talk to him and say everything will be all right, and dont forget to top of the conversation with i love u if it went succsessful
2007-12-02 11:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good luck. If it's meant to be, then it will work out.
Sometimes the truth comes out and sometimes you just say dumb things. So half and half.
2007-12-02 11:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Camille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋