my bf of 5 years cheated on me. when i found out (through this other girl) he cried and begged me to stay and told me there was NO WAY in hell that he was going to live his life without me and he knew i was theone for him, and blah blah. Then he said..." i dont want you to take me back now, i owe you and your family time" so after about 5 days of poems, flowers, and tears he tells me this... but the whole time is telling me that he wont even allow me to forgive him till i give us time. When i finally broke down and told him i could maybe forgive him if he changed, he completely stoped talking to me, the crying was over! then he told me he had chnaged his mind because i was too good of a girl for him and he cant forgive himself, even if i did and a better guy deserves me. well.... then i found out through another person, that next day he had a gf already!!! is the reason he gave up really cuz he didnt forgive himself, or was it this girl? what is going on here?
2007-12-02 11:01:18 · 3 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont you think that the whole .. we need time thing was a cover because he was seeing this girl? if he really couldnt forgive himself, he would have told me about it after it happened, not when he got caught
2007-12-02 11:07:39 · update #1
Sounds like he was trying to figure out if he really wanted to be with this other girl and needed the time (5 days) to see.
Guess he found out he really wanted to be with her.
He might be going to acting school too.
2007-12-02 11:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he prob. wanted you to stay as a 'backup' just in case the girl he wanted turned him down..so when he found out she wanted him back, he didn't need you anymore...not because he wanted to 'figure' things out...a cheater is always a cheater, no matter what.. u deserves someone so much better than him, he sounds like a jerk.! so, keep ur head up and find osmeone who won't cheat on you and one who makes you happy and all =) best of luckkkk!
2007-12-02 19:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it was both. Get over him -- he sounds like an ***! You do deserve better!
2007-12-02 19:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by BTB{06.22.09} 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋