2007-12-02 10:58:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am on the opposite side of your situation right now! Be gentle.. if they said they liked you tell them that you arn't sure of your position with relationships right now and don't want to be anything but friends. If they never said anything, act like nothing happend and try to stress the fact that they are your friend... and that you cuold possibly like another person!
2007-12-02 11:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all it's going to hurt no matter. what. Make sure to use lube though. And when you're ready to go in, you will have to use a little bit of pressure with your penis, (mutually consenting obviously) because the body's natural reaction is to pull away. It is going to hurt, but it's like ripping a bandaid off. The slower you go, the more it is going to hurt and the longer it is going to hurt. When I had sex the first time I was having a really hard time, but the guy just shoved it in there and it was much easier that way. And you won't be "laying on her". Missionary position is best for a girl who is a virgin. That will make it easier for you to "get in there" And height will not make a difference when it comes to sex. The only thing you have a align is, well, you know. And since you guys are both virgins you probably don't know, when you're having sex it is impossible to control your gas so if it happens don't let it ruin anything. Just disregard it and keep on going.
2016-04-07 04:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be honest. It will hurt them much more in the long run if they believe that you might feel the same way. It may make things awkward between you for awhile, but if you're honest and the person is your friend, they will understand and appreciate your honesty. If they have gone out on such a limb to tell you how they feel, you owe it to them to tell the truth. Hope this helps...I've been on both ends of the spectrum and it hurts a lot less to be embarrassed at the beginning than to look like a fool for a while before you figure it out on your own :)
2007-12-02 11:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by cestmoi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sultan,
It is very simple. Honesty is the best policy. Sure initially it will break his/her heart, but than they will realize that you can not force someone to love you. You or them have every right to express your feelings, but there is no guarantee that the other person will feel the same or has to feel the same and that is a chance everyone takes when falling in love. Good Luck
Simbha
2007-12-02 13:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Simbha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. By telling them gently that you do care about them but not in the way that they do about you, you set them free to find someone that can feel love for them. the sooner the better. Be positive, and careing. When you believe that your doing the best thing for you both then I think that they will adjust better.
2007-12-02 11:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Shaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell them the truth, eventhough that might hurt them but if you don't tell them you will suffer and so will they at the end. So it is better to tell the truth rather than be with them and in the long run it will hurt both of you guys.
2007-12-02 11:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by AzNbAbE4U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you be truthtful. Yes it will hurt, but I would rather have someone be honest. The more you are together and not sharing that love, its very misleading to that person. Let them move on.
2007-12-02 11:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont push the other party......it only pushes them away. But u have to be honest with your feelings and let them know that you may care about them but u dont love them like that.
2007-12-02 11:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by margerita_nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. You can be honest without being mean. Chances are it's going to hurt them, but it'll hurt them more if you let them think there's a chance for them.
2007-12-02 11:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Salaam Alaykum,
Disappear. I hate hurting anyone.
Wasalaam
2007-12-02 11:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋