I'm not really shy or annything but I got umm this fear of women problem the more they look attractive the more I fear them. And I'm not gay so I rather not go for guys I want to live in umm.. consecrated life,but embressing to say..I can't get over my desires and lusts. Even worst I love a married muslim girl.... don't lust her but um... I love her nor do we know each other...actually she don't know me . So basicaly I'm a sinner I wouldn't mind going to hell for that cuz I know I desurve that but atlest I want to live the rest of my life as asceticis. I'm thinking I should start when I'm 19....I'm 17 right now so umm is it possible?
2007-12-02 10:14:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Dude, calm down. Think things over a bit. It's natural to have lustful feelings, if you didn't then you wouldn't be here. Before you decide a life of chastity just wait and grow up a little more and just talk to girls. We aren't scary, we're just people who have our own thoughts and ideas. All of us are amazing in our own ways, and sex shouldn't be something you miss out on unless you are truly dedicated to god and doing it for the right reasons.
2007-12-02 10:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany Buttz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have a very distorted view of sex, life, & religion.
G*D made sex to be used in marriage for reproduction.
Your body is just starting to learn about these urges.
They are natural, & not to be feared, or rejected.
Lusting for this married woman is just temptation, not sin.
Acting upon them, outside of marriage, is the only sin.
2007-12-02 19:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the freakazoid?! Dude there's no reason to be scared of women, I don't know what type of world your living in,but like,Fifi said Sex is one of God's greatest gifts. If anything get married,and start talking to women,and get over your fear of them. The more you fear them the harder it will be to approach them.
2007-12-02 18:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Blaze3007 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why would you want to do that? Sex is one of the best gifts God has given to mankind. Get married and enjoy plenty of it. Marriage is sacred and holy, so no worries.
2007-12-02 18:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women are people. Not aliens. Honestly, I agree you do need therapy. You still wouldn't have to get married if you didn't want to.
2007-12-02 18:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are really that scared of women you need to talk to a doctor about it. We aren't that bad. And stop thinking about women you can't have. That is a sure way to be lonly all your life.
2007-12-02 18:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Possible , but probably not practical or beneficial for you.
2007-12-03 10:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a monk and go into a convent.
2007-12-02 18:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, it's possible. All you have to do is not shag anyone.
2007-12-02 18:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Scumspawn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
grow up
2007-12-02 18:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋