It has been around 2005-2006 since my dad started arguing with me and before he was agressive and used to beat me down to a pulp. Even one time i was sent to school with a black eye and i was in year 7 when that happened and i told the teacher that i fell down some stairs. But as i grew older, i grew taller than him and he couldnt beat me up anymore but just insult me and my mother, blaming her of what i have become. THis would happen after he had something to drink (Whisky probably). Anyways as the months went past he kept shouting sometimes try to throw a chair at me only to find my mother obstructing his way and trying to clam him down. But today he pulled the last straw since i was revising till about 4 a.m just so i could go to my mate's 18th but he said no. As long as i live in his house, i won't be going out untill i have my points for uni but it has gotten worse and theres another 7 months to go. He treated me like Sh*t and still do and i need to know how can i move out? help
2007-12-02 09:54:19 · 5 answers · asked by Junior_asd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am 18 and my British Citizenship is on its way, I just need to go make the oath and im done.
2007-12-02 10:05:31 · update #1
He wanted me to focus on my study??! U dont know what it feels like to be insulted! every bloddy day! He said the same thing when i was in year 9,10,11,12 and now 13. I wasn't even allowed out at. I feel like im in a bloddy prison
2007-12-02 10:08:45 · update #2
and he was never a real dad to me and never will be. My mother has put up with him i dunno how many years and he never raises a finger on my sister. It was always me. and my brother is at uni
2007-12-02 10:10:43 · update #3
wait til ya old enough and give him 2 fingers as you walk away
2007-12-06 13:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres another problem brewing here if you move out and anyway that really wouldnt solve the big problem. Chances are if you move out, your dad would only start taking it out on your mother which isnt fair to her and any other children if any since you didnt mention any. It would be better to notify the authorities of his abusive actions and let them handle it once and for all. It probably wouldnt be easy for you or your mom but going thru hell with this guy isnt either. This way youd be able to stay with and help your mother out. Sometimes life isnt fair and requires you to grow up to be a man unexpectedly and this is one of those times. The authorities will probably help your dad get the help he needs to overcome his problem and be a real dad/husband again. Good luck
2007-12-02 18:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe 17 is the legal age to move out. Some states may be 18. You need cash though, apartment cost. A quick call to a shelter would be a great source of info-they are very familiar in this area.
What ever you do-it stops with him!!! Do not carry it to your family. And you will be tempted.
2007-12-02 18:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
You can legally move out without your parents permission once you are 18 (in the UK).
Not being allowed to go out at your age is normal, actually. Your Dad wants you to concentrate all your efforts on your exams.
2007-12-02 18:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lizi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
legally, you are entitled to move out.
I would however chat to a teacher at school about this, as they will no doubt have the best advice and could point you in the right direction.
Best of luck with the exams
2007-12-02 17:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by HOBO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋