Where is he?
what i am doing wrong?
How you got your lover? Give me advice.
guy usually share at me a lot but it's very rare that they will approach me and i am friendly and going out going.
My first real relationship was this guy that i talked to him first before he took action later.
The second one, i told a friend to hook me up with someone she knows. He turn out to be very controlling telling me very time that he is the man and man's wife or girlfriend have to do this and that it's is religion.
So i am out of that and i want someone who can take my breath away and i will take his way as well.
I need tips here help.
Thanks
2007-12-02 08:04:58 · 17 answers · asked by frenchi 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in the same boat you are I am 36 and my like is that same ole drama I have had a handful of dates, its not that I am ugly or have a bad personality...I have hi-standards I just don't want any ole person, someone who drinks, and runs arounds & etc... I've had guys who will treat me like a queen for 3 months then start downing me after that and frankly I don't want that.. I've had the control freak and I don't want that either. Had the Possessive person and I don't want that either. I've decided to try to quit doing the matchmaking thing and be desperate...and pray and ask God for his will in who I should be with...I figure since I have been picking some really bad ones maybe if I leave it in "His" hand he will send me the one who will "take my breath away" and this time it will be "mr right" instead of mr wrong.
P.S. I'm sure it is nothing you are doing wrong..If you are a decent person alot of times guys go for the wild girls but when they are ready to settle down then they want someone who is decent and settled...don't ask me why.
2007-12-02 08:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♫piano_player♫ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First get your head out of the romance novels and soap operas.
Next if you want a decent man be a decent girl(not saying you arent) youll find good men in churches, not bars, clubs,strip joints, or parties.Then pray and ask the LORD to send you one and become the kind of woman a guy would WANT to marry and be patient.
2007-12-02 16:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a man here who can take your breath away, and his name is Tyler Durden. Unfortunately, the reason for his breathtaking skillz are simple, he does not brush his teeth all that often. Ah well. Since Stooge is off the market now, there are slim pickens here in Y!A
I do echo another person, please post your picture so we can see you and give you some good ideas and such.
2007-12-02 16:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be either trying to hard or are being too picky. Are you looking for someone to just spend time with, to laugh and have a good time, or are you looking for "eye candy" that you are glad to show off to your friends? I'm a single male and have seen that a lot of women treat us just like the stereotype that them have us pictured to be.
2007-12-02 16:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dale S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your breath away??? I'll choke you, I'm sure they'll do it. To answer your question, just relax and I'm sure you'll find the right guy or close to it. Call me when your up for the choking.
2007-12-02 16:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by wind champ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post a pic of urself so u get more responses so people can give you feedback on what you should improve to be more approachable to men.
2007-12-02 16:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men like confidence
so get a makeover a hair cut... wotever that will make u feel more confident
an abundance of men.. social events ,clubs etc
out em together and u will be a happy lady! lol
hope i helped!
2007-12-02 16:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to Los Angeles CA 90042 and I'll be waiting for a rose from you when you arrive.
2007-12-02 16:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding someone is not the easiest task to do but you have to let it take its corse and just let it come to you.you can never let love happen over night. its a waiting game.but meanwhile live your life and enjoy it.people like to see someone who doesnt just focus on looking for someone.
2007-12-02 16:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by cris jc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a man, you just want one.
i suggest working on taking care of yourself first.
guys seem to notice girls when they are busy and independent.
it makes you seem like you are more of a challenge and harder to get.
and you're not doing anything wrong.
don't blame yourself for this.
you'll find him, just be patient.
hope i helped :]
2007-12-02 16:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋