My guy is too gentle to take that sort of action.. Kind of like foreplay.. How do I get him to foreplay with me like that??
2007-12-02 05:39:32 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he doesnt have to be so gentle. Mine was the same way and i told him and he freaked out..in a good way :D
2007-12-02 05:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of woman fantasize a bit in that direction (not rape, but the aggressiveness of it all). The best thing to do is be open and tell him in a way it doesn't make him think you are asking him to be something he is not, but as something that would please you once in a while. I would also ask him if he has any fantasys of his own he'd like you to play out for him.
2007-12-02 05:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by privatecriminal2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try sitting down with him one night and explaining to him that that is what you want, or that you think hes being too gentle with you and you find it frustrating.
Then hope he picks up on what you said a few days later.
2007-12-02 06:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Esther w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up to him about your sexual fantasys. Say ..... "lets play a game of Never have I ever" let him know all the kinky stuff you've done, and you get to find out what he has done as well. If he hasnt really done that much, then ask him if he'd like to learn =D
HAVE FUN!
If all else fails, buy a super awesome porn, and stick it in one night while your have snoring sex =)
2007-12-02 05:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by eguth23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. I promise you, these four words are Christmas morning and Happy Birthday to pretty much any man: "I like fantasy rape."
Make absolutely sure -- ABSOLUTELY SURE -- that you have a "safe word." You need to be able stop things if it gets out of control.
2007-12-02 05:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by dondo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want tell him that you need him to be a real, animalistic man, and to get to know his dominant masculine side, tell him how hot it makes you and all the things it makes you want to do in return. Everyone, even women have a dominant side, no matter how small, you just have to find a way of bringing it out of him. (he may need to be intoxicated in order to lower his inhibitions the first time you try this.)
2007-12-02 05:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by The Happie Hippies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him mad, then try to have sex with him. i like being forced too....my first boyfriend just sucked at it....even when mad, some guys just dont have it in them.....my bf now is great at it! lol....but he is just naturally that way i guess....we were talking about this the other day and he said that sometimes to get a guy to be rough, you kind of have to irritate them a little, then come on to them. they will take the frustration out on you....NOW, it sounds absurd to me, but he says this works....so try it at your own risk
2007-12-02 05:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him or show him and he'll see how much fun it is then will want to turn the tables. Have acouple drinks it loosens things up then roleplay! Best of luck and have fun
2007-12-02 05:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear the leather, not the lace. Take charge, not wait for him to iniate it, becaus ehe probably won't. you may have to show him the way, men learn by being shown how to do things, our imagination is hiding, you have to help bring it out in the open.
2007-12-02 05:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for most men it is a scary thought. is she being serious? is this okay? they've been taught not do do things like that.
perhaps if YOU are more aggressive with him..ya know start the whole role playing thing..then perhaps he'll get into it.
2007-12-02 05:42:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋