I am a hindu and seriously dating a muslim for about 2 yrs. we wanted to get married, but scared of the families not understanding....can anyone share experiences...about if u have had a rel. with muslims & hindus.....i know we have a tough road ahead of us, if we do decide to get married...
2007-12-02 05:13:39 · 13 answers · asked by vernoica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
essentially. the question comes down to, who(m) is/are more important to you, family, or spouse?
realize this, family will always support you (well, atleast good family) during your hard times. where as your b.f. can change a lot sooner and w/o reason. if u try to say heck with family and go for him, you would create issues that would last a life time. u have to ask ur self, is that worth it? and are you going to be happy throughout ur life w/constantly dealing with this issue. if u are, then go for it. if ur not, think about another guy.
i'll tell u. you can get a girl or a guy (wonderful person) to be with. there are a lot of great people out there for u. the thing is, when u feel like, its him, and he makes u feel great, u dont want to think about anyone else. also, its a high to fight for something u cant or should have.
but, if i were u, i'd break up. and for ur sake, make the break up quick. if u make it longer, its only going to make it harder.
best of luck
2007-12-02 06:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This goes back way long since the time of King Akbar and Queen Jodha bai. I think this was the first inter-religion marriage account noted in the Indian history (I may be wrong) and since after so many inter-religion marriages took place in India.
The cool fact is most film stars has done the same thing and no one objects to their decisions. I think the reason why is because they are financially sound and they don't get any kind of hindrance from other people in doing so. Having said that, get financially secure, if you already are then thats great! if you are not then work for it, layout a plan then decide what you want....Goodluck!!
2007-12-02 21:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every religion favours love, emphasises love and if only every body had followed this inherent flavour of love incrested in all religions there would not have been any hatred ar wars. India has never any attacked or inveded any counytry for past thousand years. It is acountry of love and love.
So do not hear to your mind just follow the path of your heart , but be cautious that the guy is really in love with you and just not using you. This you can easily judge . Just tell him that after marriage you are neither going to change your religion or name , nor asking him to change his. He should accept you as you are.
I know many people who have had intercast marriages and are living happily better than in cast marriages.
Off course it has to be true love and not love on certain conditions . So wishing you luck for your journey on the cherished path of the religion called LOVE.
2007-12-03 03:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ravi K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am a Hindu & one of my hindu friend got married to a muslim .Their parents didnt want the wedding to happen but, still they went on their way & got married .They have been married for 3 years already.
2007-12-02 13:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by lata p 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
We know some Hindu & Muslim marriages...
all of them resulted in Hindu - Muslim riots...
2007-12-02 13:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest if you love they, stuff what the world say. It's him that you will be spending the rest of your life with, not your families. I mean your families matter, but there not with you till the end, it's the guy you love.
2007-12-03 04:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by cOOkies.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love sees no religion... Go ahead ! I wish u all the success ! and a great Life ahead !
2007-12-03 02:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by *sandylovesall* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is important relagion is not imp .
my cousing got marry with hindu girl now both r happy with each other they have one kids now..
2007-12-03 04:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Raja 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do and they couple is very happy.I do visit them at times and I always find them cheerful and happy.They have 2 kids ....one is named "Munna" and the other one is "Reema".This type of marriage is quite common I believe. There's nothing so special about it.
2007-12-02 13:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dint u read about the calcutta couple..rizwan and priyanka todra...what happened to them...check out the papers
2007-12-03 03:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋