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at first i was in a basement filled with toys and i was playing video games with this blonde girl and these 2 other girls..

after that i tried looking for a phone to call my mom but the girls house was soo big that i got lost and never found it. i had a feeling that my mom didnt know where i was.

me and the 2 girls went to the mall, where the blonde girl was kind of mean and " lead the pack " we went into a makeup store and the girl got her makeup done, she had black lipstick.

i tried to put on my own makeup soo i could be more pretty and get attention.

in the parkinglot of the mall, a clown holding 2 boxes wanted me to pick one, i was scared and didnt pick them.

when i got home i saw a policeman and police car in my driveway ( my mom couldnt find me and called the cops )...

THE ENd. can you help me out ?

2007-12-02 04:30:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Dream Interpretation

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You are feeling very powerless and immature right now.
I don't know your age, but I'm guessing junior high. It shows in your putting on makeup to get more attention. At the same time the clown showed you that putting on makeup does not always get you good attention and does not prove you are ready to grow up just yet, anymore than it shows the world that you are, indeed, grownup. Too many grownups still see past the makeup to one little girl.
Your friends are starting to get into the trappings of what they believe to be signs of being grownup, including going to the mall without parents, putting on makeup, doing stupid stuff like smoking cigarettes in the school bathroom and sneaking alcohol from the parents' liquor cabinets, but you are not ready to stop being a kid just yet.
You know what? That's okay. Sometimes pretending to be grownup by doing stupid things only backfires and shows real immaturity.
It's okay to find different friends whose goal in life is not getting into trouble. I did. My church friends, of all people, snubbed me horribly and tried out every sin in the book (Except murder, thank God). I was lonely for several years, but I stuck to my guns and didn't get involved in their trouble. To this day they battle alcoholism and drug abuse and take medication for sexually transmitted diseases they got back in junior high.
Stand up for yourself and stick to your beliefs. Don't fall into the trap of following the crowd just to be accepted. Real growing up starts with taking control of yourself and your own life, shouldering responsibility and learning from your mistakes. The other kids will ultimately respect you if you stand firm in your beliefs and stay away from trouble.

2007-12-02 04:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by enn 6 · 0 0

Deep down in your subconscious (represented by the basement) you know that you have different sides of you (the 2 other girls). One of them is bossy and wants to dominate. She isn't a very pleasant character. Black lipstick might symbolised poisonous things that you might say - bitchiness? You do want attention and to be seen as pretty, but you have a choice as how to achieve it (the clown with the boxes) which at the moment you are nervous about making. Your mother is frightened she has lost you and might have to take emergency measures (represented by calling the police). Look at the other girl in the basement - how she behaves may be the key to your other, nicer alternative. I suspect she may be your better choice.

Hope it helps.

2007-12-02 12:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by LS 4 · 0 0

Maybe, you had been kidnapped in the dream, i dunno. Or maybe you have been worrying about mean girls in youre school, or being kidnapped ?

2007-12-02 12:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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