Endless error and forgive them who know not vs Charity thinketh no evil is above forgiving one another?

Question

Forgive "them", for they know not, is before the cross.
After the cross it seems to be destroy "them" all,
with Noahic & Sodomic type destruction... iff
one like the Son of man should come again,
for vengeance (is not merciful) on them all.

So top up faith with "charity never faileth",
cause "charity thinketh no evil" to forgive;
and charity is above "forgiving one another";
to be put on "above" endless err and forgive.

What are your thoughts on endless error & forgive?
Adults priding themselves on being "children" of God?
On "children" being tossed to and fro by winds(spirits)?
On "know not"s: children and servants "differ nothing"?

Why did God say: let us make "MAN" (not child)?
Why did JC say: thou art no more a servant (slave)?
Why did Paul put away child things when man kind?
Why did Paul say: "be no more children": Eph 4:14?
Why is the Lord longsuffering to us-ward, not them-ward?
Why does destruction come on them, not us: 1Thess 5:3,9?

Answer 1

Destruction comes to those that have not accepted Jesus as their savior.