I went out partying in some posh bars in Manchester, and i met this guy who was really sweet and flirty with me.
One thing led to another, and i ended up going back to his really posh house in Hale Barns.
Anyway i slept with him, but i cant remember much. When i woke up this morning, he told me that he was a premiership footballer, but i cant say which club he plays for.
I feel really stupid, and dirty with myself for going with this guy.
He is very good looking, but i dont know whether he's just using me. As you know, many footballers have a reputation with girls. I am not into football, thats why i didnt recognise who he was.
Since i left his house today, he has been constantly texting me, and the occasional call. But i dont know what to do or say.
Can you give me some advice please ?
2007-12-02 03:28:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what his name is, I just cant say it on here.
And i have searched and apparantly he is single.
2007-12-02 04:04:05 · update #1
Also, He is from 1 of the famous football clubs in the northwest.
2007-12-02 04:04:34 · update #2
talk to him.. develop a friendship and see where things go from there..
no point dwelling on the past, just make it clear to him your not that type of girl and you dont usually do one night stands
2007-12-02 05:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does it matter 'who' he is or if he's a footballer or what?
I mean you had a one night stand, that should be the only issue here, if any issue at all...
You went out and had some fun, so what?
If you think you can enjoy some more fun times with him then answer the frikkin phone, he obviously had a good night with you and wants to see you again...and so what if he just wants to have fun with you, if you're not looking for a serious relationship and neither is he then go with it....
You'll be on your deathbed some day and kicking yourself for all the times you turned down something exciting...
And who knows maybe something good will come of it, you'll never know if you dont go for it...He finds you attractive...you find him attractive, ye had fun together....
And labelling him the same as what the tabloids have labelled everyone is a bit mean too...you barely know the guy...if you were famous you wouldnt like to be labelled the same as everyone, so step into his shoes for a second.
I know it seems like he could be the womanising type because of this but as i said figure out what type of relationship you want from him first and then make your decision.
If you do meet him again then stay sober and get to know him a bit...dont read up on him or read media bullsh*t about him, make your own mind up about him!
2007-12-02 11:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by sarasara 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok listen, u r right about the label that these guys have, but i'll say this if he is texting u and call he probably likes u alot. u dont have to give it up next time, just stay sober, and see how it goes from there. tell him u'd like to get to know him better before doing that again. suggest a movie or going out to dinner. u dont have to have sex again until u feel comfortable ok? be a lady, u'll get more respect that way! other wise u'll be talked about amongst guys, i know i'm a guy and i hear the stories about some girls. so play it save. take ur time!!!
2007-12-02 11:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by handy1102002 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hahhaha...this is funny.
Well if you feel used and dirty, why are you protecting him like he's some gentleman? just come out and tell us who he is, who knows it might be cool to know.
My advice: I think he might be stringing you along as a bootycall, because if you slept with him already he's going to think that any other guys could have slept with you on the first day as well. I don't think he wants to make you a serious girlfriend. But just work out the damage, instead of sleeping with him again maybe go out with him and get to know him a little bit, a few dates or something, but don't sleep with him and see if it really works out.
2007-12-03 12:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by cloned247 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look him up on the internet and see if he's married,there should be some personal information about him,if he's not there's nothing to be worried about.
You can't say he was using you can you,your the one who slept with him when you only knew him for 5 minutes.
Must be one of the local clubs he plays for,Man City,Man Utd,Bolton.
I was in some posh clubs in Manchester last night too,great night x
2007-12-02 11:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Pat R 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're both young, free and single so why not just go for it? If he didn't like you then he wouldn't be trying to call you, would he? Having a fling is nothing to be disgusted about but you can at least make yourself feel better by knowing that he wants to see you again. If nothing happens then at least you can say you tried and if it does you can thank all the nice peeps on here who told you to go for it :)
2007-12-02 12:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow go for it!!!! You might be a WAGS soon!! Good sign if he's texting you and calling you - this shows that he doesn't think of you as just a one-night-stand. He may have been thankful that you didn't recognise him, as i'm sure he'll have a lot of girls constantly coming onto him just because of who he is. Best of luck! x
2007-12-02 12:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Text him back, he could be a nice guy. See if he fancies meeting up for a drink next week so you can get to know him better. What's the worst that can happen?
2007-12-02 13:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by littlebethan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awe the booze is a curse but you must have liked him to go to his house and if hes texting you he must like you?meet up with him sober and explain that you were a bit under the weather and really he might be a nice guy and who knows you might become a footballers wife?take care and stop blaming yourself it takes two to tango?
2007-12-02 12:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shoudl decide what you want and go from there.. What if he wants a booty call abnd nothing more? Would you be into that? Was he worth it? Or does he seem like a keeper? Are you interested in that? Really, decide what you want out of it and go from there. Don't let his status guide you. Do what YOU want..
2007-12-02 11:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Hikerjoe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋