I met her about a year ago I did not love her in beginning but after a while she made me love her so much by saying that she love me so much she never been happy like that and other things. I treated her very good I always was so nice to her also I said to her many times if we broke up please do hurt me we broke up few times but she always come back to me. Few weeks ago I felt she is not like before we broke up in nice way we called each other few times after that I asked her if she met somebody else she said no, after a few days I discovered she met somebody else days before we broke up which I do not understand why she said love me so much days before this happened. I got so mad and I start sending very nasty texts coz I felt she used me till she got someday else I have really strange feeling I do not know if I still love her or I hate her so much
2007-12-02 01:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by salah f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sack up and be a man and quit your whining. Move on. I know it hurts but everyone hurts. Nobody respects a whiney man. Move along, find someone else. Its a big beautiful world full of great single women. You'll find someone else if your able to present yourself as a strong, confident, happy person, not a sniveling wuss.
Thats really not meant to sound as harsh as it reads! Just move along, man. We've ALL been there. Its going to be okay. No more texts, no more messages. Take control. She sounds fickle (young) so consider yourself lucky, and be prepared! This wont be the last time this happens to you, so don't react poorly. Just get some thick skin and move through your life like its your world and she's just living in it.
2007-12-02 01:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somehow i can sense you still love...
well anyway you do...!
n ithink you cant get your mind off her b/c she found herself a new guy...
n you cant understand that fact n cuz ever since you guys broke up you thought of her often, n you didnt find anygal to replace her, maybe u did, but u couldnt.
now that hhurts too... to discover that she's not realy feeling the same as you in this situation.
at this point you certainly know you must move on.
cuz she got over the break up faster n easier.
plus she's in a relationship.
so try to find yuhself a new gal too
maybe she'l make you forget her...
but explain to her your situation first...
am sure the new gal will understand n help u someway...
cuz if not in the end she might think you're only using her...
2007-12-02 01:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way.....she did you a favor, probably the best way to find out if a girl will be true to you is by seeing what a B*t*ch she really is. The best way to get over her is to get yourself another girl, as soon as you do, the B*t*ch will be forgotten and you will see what a mistake you were doing by having anything to do with her. Time will take care of everything, don't worry, (in the meantime, get another girl and have fun;)
2007-12-02 01:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't send her nasty texts. That just confirms her decision not to see you at all. Use time on your side. That is, remember how you were - say two months ago. Pretty good, right??? And even four months ago. Now project that, pretty good, in to the future. Two months from now things will be pretty good again, because they usually are, just like in the past.
2007-12-02 01:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Derail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy, be with friends and family. Don't just stay home thinking about her. Try and be social and don't ty to move on too quick because you might end up hurting someone...Goodluck Oh and no more nasty text it won't help!
2007-12-02 01:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Wang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she hang out with other guy ,, so let go!
dude i think you need to move on and find another one !
i know it might be hard for at the beginning but trust me time would heals everything
2007-12-02 01:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like what happened to me recently... Are you sure you're not my ex... Please don't forget about your ex too soon... because I don't want to be forgotten by my ex... not yet... please...
2007-12-02 01:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let this one go alot more fish in the sea
2007-12-02 01:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by ajs53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A NEW ONE?
2007-12-02 01:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by SCOTT FREE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋