How come girls say guys can't change?

Question

What other misperceptions do they have?

Answer 1

I think it is probably because guys personality's usually can't be permantly changed, but then again, neither can girls/womens.Some guys personality's may change may change, but most guys are in a habit of being themself. Who can blame them?
Another misconceptions is alot of us women/girls believe guys will always make the first move. This is untrue, right? There are probably alot more misconceptions because Men and womens minds are very different in many ways; In functioning, in emotions and so on.This therefore proves XX and XY genes make us extremely different!lol. In case you didn't know =p
Hope this has helped.

Answer 2

Because no matter what kind of a relationship a guy is in, he always seems interested in looking for what else out there, even married men do this. It's not a misperception, it's just the way men are made. Total opposite to women I'm afraid.

Answer 3

All girls know pretty well whether and up to what limit a guy can change but that's not the point.They say it when a guy doesn't change as desired or expected by them.In a way,it's not a comment or an observation but an utterance due to disappointment /frustration.

Answer 4

Because they find Boys always have Sex in mind. As against girl wants true love , passion , care , tenderness. Probabally this is because the roles god has given to them , Guys are supposed to make Gals pregnant and then all other responsibalities like taking care of kids in womb , feeding them , protecting them and bring them up is all responsibality of Gals. Well This is one way of answering the issue , there could be many. Also many Gals find that Guys always have some hidden agenda , they are selfish which may not be true always.

Answer 5

You gotta whip your guy into shape! If men had it their way they wouldnt sparkling jack, they could be disgusting pigs, and in no way commit. confident, you like the guy, yet that does'nt mean he won't exchange for you in case you ask him to. Say he's excellent effective and candy and does something you ask and you like him to loss of life, yet he's flunking college. so which you ask him to attempt slightly greater durable and furnish to help him learn. nicely, hun, you're asking him to alter, yet thats gonna help him out in the long-term anyhow! men often times opt for women to help them be first rate human beings.

Answer 6

Why would we want to change?

Actually, the old saying is:

A woman will marry a man hoping he will change. And a man will marry a woman hoping she will never change.

I have never understood why anyone would want to be in a committed relationship with someone who wasn't right for them. If you have to change them, than just leave them alone and find someone you don't need to change or just be happy on your own.

Answer 7

Because they want you to change into what they want you to be and women get upset when you go back to being who you are and what makes you happy. So if you want to make a women happy just be a puppet with no sense of pride and wear get a remote control for to contol what she wants you to say and do and of coarse they want really no that either

Answer 8

First of all, its misCONceptions, secondly, it is true. People don't change who they are deep inside. Your perception of them might change though, once you know their true colours.

It's not a misconception and it's actually quite sexist of you to think that all women have got this wrong, when it's actually true.

Answer 9

There's also the girls who say their guy CAN change (despite evidence to the contrary)

Answer 10

Once we are set in our ways, change can happen...but, its harder. This applies to both men and women.