how did you feel ?
how did you recover from it?
2007-12-01 22:26:20 · 16 answers · asked by Warrior 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I don't remember when I HAVEN'T my heart broken... It was broken so many times that I doubt I still have one... Well, I think it's easy to guess that when we no longer have one, it's easy to recover... I'm arfraid becoming a Dom Juan is the only way, and now It' s my turn to break people's hearts. It's another way to recover ...
(Would you like to help me funding the Broken Heart Lover's Club ?)
Answer me. (Hey, no lessons, Okay ?).
2007-12-01 22:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by MéloTS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have.
I felt miserable, and I was sure I would curl up and die from the pain. I couldn't see how my life could go on, since I had planned my life out with the guy, and we had already started down the road together (we were studying English Literature with a view to eventually becoming English professors).
I recovered from it with time, and with the help of my best friend. On the night of my birthday, which was exactly 6 weeks from the night my bf had dumped me (I caught him with another woman at a party), my best friend arranged a surprise party for me with a bunch of our friends. I had been limping up until that, but that night, when I saw how many people truly loved me, and when I saw that my best friend would always be there for me, and would never hurt me the way my bf had, I realized that I had a lot to be grateful for, and that really sped me on my way to complete recovery.
That recovery is what allowed me, a few months later, to say yes to a date with a guy who was completely unlike any man I had ever dated before. I had a firm idea in my head of the type of man who was "right" for me, and this guy didn't fit any part of that picture, aside from being male. It turns out it was the best decision of my life, and we have been married for nearly 18 years.
In a way, I am grateful to the jerk who trampled my trust and broke my heart. Had he not done that, I wouldn't have been available when Mr. Right finally appeared, and I wouldn't be sitting here now, a happily married woman who knows she has the best guy in the world, by which I mean the best guy for me.
2007-12-01 22:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my heart broken so many times and all of it from the same girl ,it feel like no other pain you think it ever exested and you don't really recover from it it will hunt you all the time then it get to be bad memories the thing that really is bad is you still love that person yes i do , silly me huh ?
2007-12-01 22:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by mohame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone goes through this phase atleast once in life.
i had my heart broken.Felt terrible.wanted to die.but kept myself busy in job and family.studies etc.and am gradually improving.time heals you and teaches you alot.i took short courses,learnt computer in that time,learnt other things just in an effort to keep myself busy
i felt sick,every morning when i woke up i had an urge to kill myself by stabbing a knife in stomach or hang myself or cut throat etc.i read alot of books in this period to divert my attention.I read novels and books on personal growth ,positive thinking,and on relationships.Now i realize that i would have not read those books had i not gone through that pain.And at the end of the day i feel that i am now a better person than before.so hopefully,i'll have a better relation ship next time.good luck.i can feel your pain.god bless you
2007-12-01 22:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... I lost my soul mate last year.. but he broke my heart twice... the first time by ending it and the second time when he took his own life... its a heart break I'll never recover from.... but I have moved on.... as you will too... life has a funny way of getting you through it.. trust in yourself and realise what is for you won't pass you by...
2007-12-01 22:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by topazale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 5 times some good easy breakups some hear broken you just get tough and roll with life;.(meaning tough in the heart) To deal with it just take a break from relationships and sit back to get to relaxing. that is the only way to get back to another. please do not dwell on the past.
2007-12-01 22:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by gasmanfart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had my heartbroken before, and it hurts.
Everytime I close my eyes I see him, and then I see her, the girl that stole his heart. and it's not a great feeling.
Eat chocolate, alot of it, then put yourself out in the world in an 'Here I am, and come and get me' way. We can all survive a heartbreak, but it will always leave a scar. Good luck!
2007-12-01 22:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by kimmygoldenangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - betrayal is a terrible thing
Awful - I wanted to die
With time - I developed perspective and eventually learned to see it as part of the life experience that I had to go through - I had to learn about pain and betrayal to appreciate the good stuff ... REALLY appreciate it.
2007-12-01 22:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes was with my ex for 3 years, perfect relationship so i thought till one day he told me its over without giving me a reason its been 4 years and i still havent recovered.
2007-12-01 22:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by angi3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Currently my heart is broken by one girl and she doesn't care about me and she says that she doesn't hate me but keeps ignoring me and keeps being rude to me.
It hurts alot and it's difficult to keep hold of you
2007-12-01 22:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋