so theres this guy, i'll call him jake. jake's best friend asked me out last year, and i said no. jake's best friend has now moved away and his best friend and i have had a really big fight.
anyways lately ive talked to jake more. at first i thought he hated me, because he had sent me this proof about how ppl are evil after the first time we met on msn. so i was really scared, thought he hated me. then when i asked him about this lately, he said he just wanted to make me laugh..and also he tells me not to wear too short clothes cuz i'll catch a cold, cheers me up when im down, and hes told me one of his secrets that he said he has only told one other person.
.but then he told me last week that there was this girl he likes who is moving away soon..which is not me.
recently he sent me a :( face later, and i asked him why..he said cuz i didnt wave at him..and i dunno how to interpret him....
i asked this already (sorry if youre reading it again) but im still not sure how to
2007-12-01 22:20:06 · 9 answers · asked by lili :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
interpret this, because of that whole thing where he told me he likes another girl...
2007-12-01 22:20:27 · update #1
ive heard of a theory called "hero"-something.. (Sorry if im not making too much sense here). Its theory where you start thinking that a person likes you more than a friend just because they're nice to you, giving you attention, seems to seek your attention etc. Honey, all i can say is that that might be the case with you and him. From what i gather, he's been a really good friend to you - even telling you a secret! Guys dont normally tell girls they like their "secrets"..
Sorry to say, but i think he only thinks of you as a close friend.. but nothing more... sorry again..
2007-12-01 22:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by chrys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down, pay attention and get the tissue paper. I may hurt your feelings but Jake seems to be a nerd. You lack common sense and if you can't read a guy's moves, you're either: too young and immature or too dumb and couldn't find your way out of a paper bag or both. When a guys get neurotic about someone "not waving back", drop him! Do you want to spend the rest of your life with this neurotic nerd? I hope not. Find you someone who may "not share secrets" with you but who really like you for what you are. Now if I was right above. Nothing between the ears? Well then may you two deserve each other. A neurotic nerd with the empty head one.
2007-12-01 22:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to see how you feel about him as you are so confused. I suggest that you stop playing around and come right out and ask him how he feels about you. Then tell him how you feel.
2007-12-01 22:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Joshot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could have said the thing about another girl to see how you wud react...to find out wot you think of him.....or he might not realise hes flirting with you or does with every girl
see how he reacts around other girls and good luck =)
2007-12-01 22:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by ♥blonde moments needs help.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lili ifhe like's other girl why you keep looking for answeres about you and him ? why you care about him is it love or you just dont want to be number tow ! this is how you must think of it belive me you dont need to hurt yourself , you need to feel happy , go smile and let go .
2007-12-01 22:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by mohame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be relaxed and don't get your hopes us if he does feel something he should say and not play games
2007-12-01 22:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Reggie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is gay but does not want to come out
2007-12-01 22:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by gasmanfart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahh he still loves you ...He'll never get over her ... Cause he did ... He just didn't know it until she moved!!!
2007-12-01 22:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat did u say again
2007-12-01 22:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋