2007-12-01 20:53:14 · 9 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that's really how you feel and you are not lying to yourself, then say goodbye...to her face of course and let her know it just wasn't meant to be. Be kind so that nothing ever comes back onto you. Remember, what goes around comes around.
Good luck.
2007-12-02 23:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to at least give the girl a chance to speak her mind before making the final decision. It takes two people to build a future in a relationship so what's your real reason? Hopefully you have one that will sound more legit.
2007-12-01 21:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by lovie808 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to think big picture.
There are girls I have not chased because I know they want the marriage/kids and the works - and all I was going to give them was a bit of a fun time.
There was a lady I fell head over heels in love with ... then to discover that she was into speed. That's a no-no with me. Very hard to break up with someone you are completely bonkers over, but it had to be done. Otherwise I was just wasting time and setting myself up for more pain.
Get it over and done with NOW so you can move on for better (and happier) times sooner.
2007-12-01 20:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully the most graceful way possible talk it through. If you love her tell her that and tell her you need to do what is best for both of you. Tell her you really care and still want to be a part of her life but it isn't working right now and you need to leave. I hope this helps. If she loves u she will be understand. It will hurt you both but you will get over it
2007-12-01 20:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by colesuncoast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell the person that you feel the relation will not go where you want it to and it probably is best to break up. Can remain on a friendly basis but in no way intimate if they other person is big enough to do it.
2007-12-01 20:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quietly...and only once. There's no need to make any noise or have a long-winded discussion about something you know to be true and necessary. Just walk away and try to forget it ever happened...
2007-12-01 21:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop the joint,back away from the weed:MARY JANE doesn't
mean you well.She only want you to s_ck on her and stay high!
2007-12-01 21:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by yp_will_chicago_369 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell the truth. Tell him/her," I think your a great person but I don't think this is going anywhere. I think it would be benifitial to us both if we just remained friends."
and just leave it at that
2007-12-01 20:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by sweetlili4eva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person that you're breaking up with them.
2007-12-01 20:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋