Well most guys wont get this i dont think well anyway, i have been looking to the past alot and thinking about my last girlfriend and it has been like 3 months since we broke up and i dont know what to do. I feel like crap and i dont know if its that i have too much time on my hands or i still care for her but i am so confused and i cant stop regreting things that i did. I know i need to let it go but i cant for some reason and i dont know what to do! Help please, if you can give me any advise i would be very happy to hear it!
2007-12-01 20:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by Brooke 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably has moved on people don't wait for long these days so move on with your life :)
2007-12-01 20:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been there. Many people look back on relationships and think about what happend and this is when we think of the dumb things we did but you cannot change them now. We all make mistakes, If she still has some interest I would try to see if we could start again but correct the mistakes I made before by not repeating them. If she is not interested then I would just move on try to find other things to take up my thoughts and time. Don't loose yourself dwelling on this or you may miss out on someone that wants to be with you.
2007-12-01 20:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Reggie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by enns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let it go and stop obsessing and living in the past. Move on with your life. Learn from the past and do better in the future. Concentrate on you for a while and let the rest take care of itself. When we are very young our relationships with s.o.'s are very short because we aren't capable of making them last, we just don't have the experience. You are gaining experience with every relationship you have. Each one should become better than the last until you have it down and find your one and only, probably in your mid-20's. Keep practicing, don't obsess, learn from mistakes, and make it better next time.
2007-12-01 20:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're just feeling guilty, or your ego is bruised. Don't even try to say that it's love because you wouldn't have done those "regretful things" if you cared for her.
Anyway, if it's guilt, call her up (or contact her some other way) and apologise sincerely, then, and this is the important part, LEAVE HER ALONE... FOREVER. If it's ego, you have a much bigger problem and I doubt anyone can really help you. Just for the sake of mentioning it though, and to relieve your "pain", I'll say: get rid of it or feed it. Either one should work.
2007-12-01 20:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by monotol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break-ups are always tough.. And all of them include a "what if.. N what did I do wrong...I should've done this..."phase its normal.. If u gotta cry.. Then cry sometimes its the best way to vent out.. Depending on the situation listen to "love bashing"music.. It may sound dumb but listenin to those kinda songs gets u in the mind set that you are not alone and someone else knows what you're feeling. Try dating again to get your mind off it... but remember sometimes memories creep up on ya and you'll let em go when youre ready! I promise!(speaking from personal experience)
2007-12-01 20:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥aman-duh leigh♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been 3 mos. You need to find something to divert your attention, a hobby or something. Regretting what you did is fine and good but there's nothing you can realistically do to change it.
Chances are she's moved on with her life
2007-12-01 20:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you move backwards try and move forward. Start seeing other people and if you are still thinking about her with regret in three more months then give her a call.
You can do it!!!
2007-12-01 20:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by PrincessandtheCity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The breakup is still very fresh, it's normal to think about a person like that. Give it more time, it's not always easy, but you need more time. The more time you have the less you'll think about her.
2007-12-01 20:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by PerpetualKathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know or hook up with some new girls!don't worry!there are so many girls in the world,why you have to feel like crap for only one girl!just say these words in your mind when this girl comes into your mind:
"I'm sure that God made a girl for me,better than her"
Good Luck!!
2007-12-01 20:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for forgiveness from her or whomever you may feel that you can get rid of this confusion and regret. follow your innerself on what you feel is right and TRY to move on. main of all dont let it happen again of course since this is what is pulling you down
good luck
2007-12-01 20:29:07 · answer #11 · answered by Marsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋