2007-12-01 20:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Post a question like this where he can find it and if he doesnt say anything he is prob using you. If he is hurt by it and stops talking to you then you were wrong and should have just been open with him.
2007-12-02 03:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by David D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can see the signs of an unhealthy relationship at every step along the way. For example, when you first start dating and he wants to go out, but you can't, because you've promised to spend that time with family, friends or doing work for school and/or career, he won't understand and he will say something like, "What could be more important than spending time with me?" As the relationship progresses, h e will pressure you to do things you are uncomfortable with and will add something like, "You'd do it if you really loved me." As you become more involved with him, he will start saying things like, "I'm the only one who really loves you,". or "You're lucky to have me, no one else would put up with you." And then, in the worst case scenario, he will start to hit you. In a nutshell, if your partner shows no interest in hearing your side of things, doesn't honor your commitment to parts of your life that don't involve him, wants to control you and tries to isolate you from your other activities, that's an unhealthy relationship.
2007-12-02 04:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask, you are not ready for a relationship.
There are no signs that are always there in an unhealthy relationship. There is no textbook answer, every relationship is different, and you should be able to tell if yours is unhealthy.
and to stop a guy from using you, simply just don't let him.
2007-12-02 04:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize that sometimes you have to play hard to get. and don't fall to hard to easily. the signs of an unhealthy relationship is when u feel used or if u feel that u are growing apart. there are other things that are unhealthy too but u will see them.
2007-12-02 04:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by complicated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't overthink that one. Sometimes by you thinking he's using you when he's just being with you, can cause a unhealthy relationship too. It's healthy to give everything freely to each other. It's healthy to be honest too.
2007-12-02 04:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific answer to your question, just be careful in who you choose and listen to what he says, sometimes people tell on themselves. Don't give in to physical desires so easy. If a guy is out for one thing he will not wait long if he is not getting some. If you know what I mean
2007-12-02 04:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Reggie M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The signs are, you find yourself asking " Am I being used?" 'Is this relationship unhappy?"
Most times, if you are asking or worried that this might happen,it usually is
2007-12-02 04:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋