This is about my dad.?

Question

1) dad lied about gf and then told me
2) I was happy & excited to meet her
3) dad didn't allow me to converse when I met her
4) dad promised my oldest kid a bike & 5 months past & he got a boys bike & told my kids no & let the gf's grandson ride it (he actually put his hand out to nudge my kids back)
5) dad told my grandma that he has a life & I am just his kid & I am not as important, he is happy now
6) he told me that his gf is better than all of us and he doesn't need us around
7) he bought a brand new car for his gf to use since her vehicle is breaking down, & my vehicle is not in the best condition either & I have his 2 grandkids in the car
8) he brags up & down to her how much money he has, he tells me he is telling me he's poor because he doesn't want to help his grandkids
9) He won't let me meet his gf's family at all & he told me a little about them but he wants to celebrate xmas with the gf & her grandson. What can I do I tried to talk & dad got mad Im not happy w/ gf

1) dad has nearly $1 mill (not to be a brat but I will explain)
2) I have LOANED and paid back $90 in 5 years, plus 2 car repairs (1 was recent)
3) GF gets help ASAP, but I am crap when I try to make it on my own with out help and the once a year is not 2 years I ask for a very very small favor he puts me down, but she is driving a $17,000 vehicle and he just met her!

What can I do I tried to be nice I tried to talk with the gf I have tried to include her I have tried to include her family, everything I do is shot down... and I only mean good and I am not being catty, I am just starting to get kinda P.O.ed at her with how she is acting.

Answer 1

Sounds like your father has been pretty clear about where you stand. You had those kids and are an adult. Its no longer his responsibility to raise you. While it would be nice if he did, he sure doesn't have to and its none of your business what he does and what he does with his money. Stop making trouble.

Answer 2

You already have kids of your own; meaning you're an adult. You are not your dad's responsibility anymore. He doesn't have to pay for any of your things. Your expenses are your responsibility and he can do whatever he pleases with HIS money. It would be a different story if you were still a minor and living under his roof. Then, he would have to pay for all your expenses. My dad did the same thing. He remarried after divorcing my mom and was giving everything to his young new wife. My siblings and I did NOT expect anything from him and certainly did not demand that our dad pay for any of our expenses or give gifts to our kids. Get over it; be happy for him, wish your dad the best and hope that his happiness lasts. Don't be bitter and resentful or you'll never allow yourself to be happy. If it's actually true -which I doubt- that your dad told you his gf is better than all of you and that he didn't want you around, I don't understand why you would insist in being with a person that obviously doesn't care about you. Focus your love and energy on your kids and on improving your own life.

Answer 3

Why aren't you happy with his girlfriend...he's the one with the issue. Your father is right he is a grown man and he's going to make his own decisions and I know this hurts you because he's putting some women before his family but this will all come back to hurt him in the end. If he acts as if he doesn't care about his grandsons then don't allow them to see him...even though this may be petty he shouldn't be aloud to be around them if he gonna treat them as if his girlfriend and her grandson are better then him. Let him live his life and make a mistake of missing out in his own gracndchilds lives...in the end he will look like a fool and regret his mistakes. But don't dwell on the issue because your just gonna make it worse for yourself and your kids.

Answer 4

1. Your dad's an ahole.
2. He's stupid to treat you less important that his gf.
3. You're the daughter and nothing is more important than that.
4. If he can't treat you nicely, AVOID HIM and let him realize what a j*rk he really is.
5. If you're independent of him, you don't need his money and support - better for you. You have your own life to live and living in his shadow while he treats you and the rest of the family like :sh*t is out of the question. You deserve better treatment from your father.
6. Stop being nice to the GF as well.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Tell him his gf is the best thing since sliced bread. This is what he wants to hear.
That's your best chance to keep some kind of relationship with him.
Don't expect too much from him. He's not sleeping with you.
Don't ever mention his will. Maybe he'll forget to write his gf into it.

Answer 7

That is some pretty big issues. But it's just something that you'll have to live with and accept. It's sad and hurtful, but it happens to hundreds everyday. Learn a valuable lesson and never treat your children that way. I'm sorry for you, but I really don't know what to say to help you, I'm sorry.

Answer 8

ok go in and just talk to him about these things... AT NIGHT!

mintally as long as there not in a 'get away im sleeping' people always are in a more understanding way...

Answer 9

Is this a question or a puzzle. Where is the question?.

Answer 10

wats the question?