SO I have a 7 year old brother who loves wrestling.. for the last 2 months, everytime he's gotten mad at my mom, he's now been doing these wresting moves on her (keep in mind that he's 4'6 80 pounds and 7 years old... she's 5'7 170 pounds and 45 years old).. With these moves (slammin her into the wall, knocking her on the couch, etc.) also comes spitting in her face and calling her all kinds of unmentionable names.. and guess what??? after it's all said and done, she'll still fix him dessert after dinner and let him stay up till 10 o' clock to watch more wrestling.. she says this is her way of "cutting down on more problems," but I don't buy it.. Should I contact Nanny 911 or club her in the head until she gets some sense or what???
2007-12-01 17:12:49 · 25 answers · asked by Brit-Brat 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Okay.. hello!! this is my life.. I have to live with this everyday... it affects my ability to do homework or concentrate, and it increases my stress
2007-12-01 17:23:10 · update #1
okay... for the people taking the clubbing so seriosuly, I was basically being sarcastic.. GOSH
2007-12-01 17:25:19 · update #2
Yes.. he tends to do the same thing to us if we don't give him his way.. he's even pulled a knife on my sister before (seriously, i am NOT JOKING)
2007-12-01 17:33:47 · update #3
little brat... that sucks.
club da b*ch and when she is out call Nanny 911.
2007-12-01 17:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by The Angry Vegetable 3 · 4⤊ 4⤋
manhattan is greater inspired, by her mom than I ever found out. This final episode truly pissed me off. My relatives capacity the international to me their isn't any way in the hell Im going to enable some in one day ghetto relatives disrespect them T.V or no t.v. TE could have took his relatives homestead and so could have Buddha. Sis. P. is very nicely with you long as you do not circulate up against something she says. I hated whilst she pronounced the only element popping out of B. Father is warm gas. Then manhattan dissing Punk mom and sister truly made me mad. the guy has been leaping by hoops to win her heart and that's the thank you that he gets. whilst i became into watching that assertion i became into questioning how he felt whilst he had to make certain what she pronounced for the 1st time. manhattan and her unfavorable excuse for a mom truly crossed the line.
2016-10-10 01:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to be the parent in this situation. Sounds like some co-dependence issues are going on that your mom needs therapy for fast. Do both, contact 911 and club one of them in the head (actually the club would be that you are going to call a therapist). That is horrible he is misbehaving like that and your mother is allowing him to walk all over her and the rest of the family. I can't believe she would allow him to spit in anyone's face. This is going to backlash on your brother and no one will want to be around him if someone doesn't rein him in NOW. It's not too late for time outs and grounding. It sounds like he has RAD or ADHD. I don't want to pry but you didn't mention your dad. Maybe it's time to send him to the father for a bit. If you mother won't, maybe you should. Maybe that will shame her into taking care of her responsibility. Sorry you are going through this. Been there, done it, sympathizing with you! Take care.
2007-12-01 18:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by noodlesmycat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Turn off the wrestling when you happen to walk by, and see him watching.
Explain why YOU don't want him watching it, and that you love him.
Then turn the channel to a show more appropriate for a 7 year old.
He should respect you for taking a stand, and follow your example. He probably looks up to you more than anyone else he knows, and if you are a good role model, he will follow.
Tell your mom what you think, and why you don't think wrestling is appropriate for yor little brother to watch.
Your brother is probably longing for some control, and disipline. Most kids don't really want to stay up late, doing whatever they want, but they have no limits, so they will anyway. They need someone to tell them when to go to bed, and what to watch on tv.
2007-12-01 17:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well i hate to say this but their is really nothing that can be done if your mom doesn't put down some rules. maybe wrestling isn't a good thing for him to watch if he can't understand that it is not OK to use the moves. i would just stay out of it and worry about you. even if you have to do homework somewhere else like your room or a friends house library. because lets face it your mom would need to get on track and if no one else wants to do anything you are just going to waste you r time trying to parent your mom on how or what to do with your brother
i hope things get better hopefuly this is just a stange your brother is going through
2007-12-01 19:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by ~*big mama *~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't club her in the head. You may get in trouble for that. It sounds like this is last baby and she is afraid to set some rules for this boy because this is baby. I could be wrong. Sometimes moms baby the boys. I see it all the time. it is most likely done by older moms from sixties and under. Give her a parenting class to go to and go along with her and bring this up in group. This should be interesting how it plays out.
2007-12-01 17:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you should have a talk with you mother, and you should also keep your brother from wrestling with her. It's not really psychologically healthy for him to be doing what he does at such an age. Years from now he'll be doing the same thing with other women, only subconsciously. Talk with your mother and tell her that it may cut down on more problems now, but later all those "non-existent" problems will accumulate later and cause more problems.
2007-12-01 17:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by CaDBFe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom doesn't know how to handle your brother. She has 3 options, she can beat your brother, which may cause her to lose him if he squeals to authorities, she can turn to the authorities and pay major fines every time she does to the legal system for your brother because he is still a minor and start your brothers criminal record very young, or she can put him in therapy which is also very costly and time consuming and will give him some type of permanent label that won't be good for his future. I would kick his butt if it were me. ;-)
2007-12-01 17:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats not right at all. Children have problems. You don't reward them if they spit in your face either. That is just wrong. It really is wrong. This kid needs to be punished and needs to learn right from wrong before it is too late. If he spits in a teachers face or calls a teacher that then he'll be in much bigger trouble. I would find a way to stop it before it becomes any worse.
2007-12-01 17:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Call Nanny 911... no point in hitting her in the head with a club, it will just kill more brain cells and it sounds like she's lost enough of those already (no offense...)
2007-12-01 17:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
wow...I can't believe what I'm reading.
Did your brother do that to you as well?
Nanny911 sounds like a good idea, but i think you should talk to your mom that she will continue getting this type of treatment from her own child if she lets him have his own way.
Your mom definitely portrays a wrong way in showing her love to your brother.
I think your mother needs enlightning, while your brother need some clubbing in the head, see if he likes that.
2007-12-01 17:25:43 · answer #11 · answered by acian 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋