She never appreciates anything you do. The only thing she cares about is you being able to get good grades and come out with a good job, so that you can support yourself and move out. She doesn't want you going out late even when you're 20(male). She thinks everything that can't make money is pointless and stupid. She wants you to be independent, but when you suggest you will go find a job and move out, she won't let you.
2007-12-01 16:41:38 · 13 answers · asked by lucstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mom annoys me sometimes... but, I know I probably annoy her sometimes too. She loves me a lot, so it's all good!!!
2007-12-01 16:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Leia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom doesn't sound any more annoying than a lot of them.
If you are 20, you don't need her permission to get a job and move out.
On the other hand, she sounds like she's being practical and trying to help you prepare for the future.
I'd say that it's a pretty good deal if she lets you stay there while going to college.
But it's your choice.
If you decide to move out, try to stay friendly or at least civil; it shouldn't be a big split with your family.
2007-12-01 16:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is pretty stupid and lame.
No mine is not though actually. I'm glad too!
My mother is annoying but in a immature way.
My mother acts like a little kid and calls me "mommy" but in a joking matter. Whenever I'm walking with her and someone is in front of us she makes farting noises each step she makes. She doesn't support me in school and every morning she turns the television up to a volume of 50 at 5am and sings to the religion channel. I have a higher education then her and I'm only in 8th grade. She does a lot more annoying things but too many to list. I love her to death though still but she can get over the limit sometimes. Why not try telling your mother straight and clean you're a growing man and is becoming your own individual and part of society. You're allowed to leave at this age and the age you're at your mother is no longer the boss of you, well a little bit because you're still not 21. Try sitting down with her and ask if she's afraid of losing you and see what's the matter of you going away and starting your own life!
Goodluck!!
2007-12-01 16:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 01:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not seem like it, but your mother just wants what is best for you. Most parents want things in life to be easier for their children because in most cases they've had to go through hard times and rough experiences themselves. In turn they might not want you to experience the same hardships they may have had to go through so they can come off as being "pushy" when it comes to getting those good grades because that truly does help when it comes time for you to go off to or graduate from college and get a good job someday. You should know that your mother loves you, so believing in that is the only thing you need to know in order to strive in life and avoid hardships. :)
Hope that helped.
2007-12-01 17:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got some growing up to do. At age 20, you should know some of the facts of life: ie, it takes money to get by. If you're still living at home, she is supporting you, (or she and your dad are), and she wants you to learn to take care of yourself! This is natural! It's like the mother bird pushing the baby bird out of the nest, so it learns to fly. If you don't like it at home, you should get a job, move out, and learn to take care of yourself. Then you wouldn't have to answer to her.
2007-12-01 16:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by am7 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She may seem annoying now, but she just wants whats best for you. And even though being 20 yrs old you are an adult but parents have a rough time letting go. She does contradict herself but all of us parents do. All you need to do is whats best for you. Regardless, you are her son and no matter what path you choose to follow in life, she will always love you, stand by you and be proud of you.
2007-12-01 16:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother would be less annoying if you got a job making good money and moved out. Consider it doing more than threatening her with it.
2007-12-01 17:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is only trying to make sure that things turn out best for you. If you are still living in her house then she has the authority to decide if you go out or not.
2007-12-01 17:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at the second sentence you wrote, she wants you to get a GOOD GRADES AND COME OUT WITH A GOODJOB!
She cares about you, she only wants the best and she doesn't want you to move out because she LOVES you.
Never say you don't like your parents, think of what they did for you as a kid, for the holidays, all the fun things THEY got you.
I love my parents and YOUR MOM LOVES YOU!!!
2007-12-01 16:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most mom's are like this it is normal. Mother wouldn't be mothering if they wasn't annoying. I think most people would say yeah I know how that feels been there done that.
2007-12-01 19:20:01 · answer #11 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋