Okay so my friend has kinda been blowing me off latley. ill be like "so what do you wanna do on friday? are you busy?" and shell be like "Nope. we can hang" but than we end up not. Also when we do hangout we have hte bestest time ever. but when i see her at school the next day she acts like she never wants to see me. i was once talking to her and i said "so did you win the 5 mile run?" and she looked at me, turned away and started telling this other girls about it. and one last thing. i recently got Firefox and i found out im not even on her top friends, yet it says on her profile, "i love Maggie, Katie(me), Liz, and Megg.". oh wait this is the LAST thing i swear(= when i messege her she usually never messeges me back, but she does to other people,
does she hate me? is she sick of me? what can i do to get it together with her, cause our friendship is really important to me.
I really appreciate this, and im really sorry its so long.(-
HAPPY ANSWERING!
2007-12-01 13:46:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, "hunny" she is my bff, and im her bff. that was very rude and just made my day, that much worse. thanks. ill be reporting your answer(=
2007-12-01 13:57:09 · update #1
First of all you need to just be straight out with her to ge a straight answer in retrun from her. Ask her what is bothering her, becuase you feel that your relationship is not the same like before. Maybe she found other friends that you don't have anything in common with them and she is afraid to tell you about it so she wont hurt your feelings. Maybe she is going through some phase...If you don't ask her, you are going to start resenting her for making you feel bad, than your relationship with your friend will just escalate downward. Stop it now before it's too late.
2007-12-01 13:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by KARLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I would do. I would go to her and tell her "Hey can we talk? This is important" Then tell her staright up how you feel. Maybe she isn't realizing what she is doing. This has happened to me before and my friend didn't know she was actually ignoring me. Sometimes it feels awkward knowing your BFF is ignoring so just hang in there. Good luck.
2007-12-01 13:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend. She is being two-faced, so don't worry about trying to keep her friendship.
2007-12-01 13:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, she may be your best friend, but you are not hers.....
2007-12-01 13:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋