my bestfriend told me that my boyfriend was talking about me and how he only wants me for my body. And that he doesn't like me that much. And just stuff like that. I know that my bestfriend isn't trying to get me to break up with my boyfriend so she can go out wiht him because she has a boyfriend herself. And she likes him so much its adorable. But i just don't know if i should believe her...if what she is telling me is true what should i do?? I like him so much and i would hate to break up with him... :( !!!!
2007-12-01 13:27:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well personally I would believe her because she is your friend and she wouldnt make it up. If the guy really just likes you for you looks or body then he might be using you or something. Even if you really like him you can still be friends with him if you want. But I wouldnt want a guy who would only like me for my looks and body. Ok yeah I would but I would also want him to like me for who I am and my personality. And I would belive your friend because I do not think she is making this up.
2007-12-01 13:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thx 4 the advice 2 me, and now some 4 u
this has happened to me
but confront him about what she has said, most likley its not true, my best friend was the one who told me, i did confront him, and it wasnt anything, just a silly rumor, nothing bad. He was very shocked that she had said something like that. Truth is, one of the very people who hates me (back at cha LEXI!) started it so we would break up, and she could have him. Well. it spread all the way around to my best friend who told me, guess no one else had the guts. but dont worry its most likley not true
just ask him
2007-12-01 13:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under what circumstances did your friend hear your BF supposedly talking about you that way? Certainly you would think that your BF would know better than to talk like that in front of your friend, because of the likelihood that it would get back to you. I would talk to the friend first, and find out more information about the circumstances, and would she feel uncomfortable if you were to let your BF know about the conversation...then maybe your should test your BF, and not be so giving of your body, just to see what his reaction is.
2007-12-01 13:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What purpose would your best friend have in telling you this? Does she have anything to gain by lying to you? If not, then I'd say she's looking out for your best interest.
Is this something that she heard for herself or did she hear it from someone else who might be making it up?
I'd talk to your guy and ask him what's up. I'm guessing he won't be able to fake it in front of you, when confronted with it, and you'll be able to tell if he's telling you the truth or not.
If he's using you for sex, the dump him - quickly - and stand up proud and tall. You're worth more than that!
2007-12-01 13:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Damaris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and find out by maybe talking it over with your friend to see how she found that out or why she thinks that maybe try and kind of test your boyfriend if you believe, i am also sorry cause it might be confusing. K hopefully you find out the truth, Bye!
2007-12-01 13:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why don't you ask him yourself instead of believing what other people 'think' is true. Or ask your best friend how they know this. But I would probably believe your best friend over your boyfriend in any problem
2007-12-01 13:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she is trying to be a good friend to you. Don't shoot the messenger. There are plenty of girls out there with great bodies, and chances are, he could find one that he "likes"... so, you either must ignore it or speak with him about it.
2007-12-01 13:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Just Tryin' to Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, even when presented with what we believe is true, you would stay with him, and talking with him would probably be fruitless, because not many would admit the truth...... so you set yourself up for heartache, no one to blame but....................
2007-12-01 13:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about how he is around you,
2007-12-01 13:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by miiia.xo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋