When everybody thinks he is wonderful?
I was compleatly under his thumb. one night when i was drunk he coaxed me into allowing him to take images of me masterbating and using sex toys. I told him to delete it, he said he had. I then found out that he had been passing those images of me around. he said that he didnt do anything wrong and that I need to be careful about how i make porn with. He told his friends that i was making it up and now they think im a nasty piece of work for saying such things about him.
I cringe everytime I think about passing those images around and because it was close upof my vagina, i feel objectived and ashamed of my body.
Ive been to the police and they gave him a warning but did not press charges.another night when I woke up after drinking a lot of brandy, I was in lot of pain in my vagina and anus area. I asked him did we have anal sex, he refused to answer? I am now worried that he filmed me/us when i was passed out. i dunno how 2 get over it
2007-12-01 13:12:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
im pretty sure he did, but am not 100 % sure. Ive not tried it, so i wouldnt know waht it felt like.
2007-12-01 13:24:38 · update #1
XY I fail to see the point is ansewwerina question with " you are making half of it up" what is the point> if you only believe half then just answer half. I am not an expert on anal sex, if i was not conscious or semi concious then how would I know for sure. I felt pain that is all i know.
2007-12-01 13:41:12 · update #2
rise in value
be sensible
distinguish
raise the value of your self
set a price on you
estimate justly
~value~
...rise in value...
2007-12-01 21:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My instinct tells me he forced it on you while you were in a unconscious (or at least not-fully-aware) state. There are guys around who would do that - I know!
I won't enter into the controversy of involving the law - I'll just say, get away from this guy now! Use any means necessary to keep him away from you! You may have to change your address, but think of that as a last resort,.
2007-12-03 07:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk, a horrible person. If you can't separate from him in the community where you live, can you move? You may want to talk to a therapist to get some perspective on this. If it is a close up, tell others it isn't you if someone brings it up. But, who's going to bring it up? If they do, they are not people you want in your life.
2007-12-01 15:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are making up 1/2 of it. You would know if he had anal sex with you, wouldn't you?
2007-12-01 13:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋