What should I do I been messing with him for three years. Should I be the second wife.I Should I give up my soulmate the man I love.What to do should I pray for him to leave her and come to me. Deep down I know it will happen someday. Anyone out there know what I'm feeling
2007-12-01 11:59:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out of the situation. You said it, you know he will never leave his wife for you, so get it over with and get a life of your own.
2007-12-01 12:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Joan H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hands off if he's married!
Let's say he did marry you. Would you really want to? Would you really want to marry the man that's been cheating on his wife for another? Who's to say he won't do it again? Because he loves you? That's what he said about his wife.
Plus, lightning does tend to strike at the same place twice--it does happen. And life does have its sense of humor.
You're praying for him to leave her, but nobody up there will accept your wishes to break a happily married woman's heart. Think of it oppositely--if you did marry him, and another woman appeared and claimed she's his soulmate, how would you feel?
It'll never happen--and if it does...
...well. Life doesn't live without a sense of humor.
2007-12-01 20:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. If you two were meant to be, he would be single. It has been 3 years, he hasn't left his wife (and chances are good that he has no plan to.) She probably has NO IDEA that you even exist which means he's lying to her. Remember, if a guy is willing to mess around and hurt his wife, he will more than likely do the same to you. He will enjoy you and get what he wants from you until something "better" comes along. Any guy that will hurt one person will have no problem hurting others.
2007-12-01 20:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing.I was the 4th wife and he is now ready for wife #5.If he is married,he is NOT YOUR soulmate.Spare yourself the pain and cut and run while you can,breaking off a 3 year relationship hurts,but not like a divorce.And anyone who thinks the cheater in a relationship will never cheat on them is a fool.Learn from my mistakes and RUN.
2007-12-01 20:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by do not need a babysitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See you shouldnt have that you just a Sideline and you Need to Find Someone To Be Make You The Main You just NeED TO LEAVE HIM AND QUCIK!!!!!!
2007-12-01 20:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! It's the idea that you can't have him. Once you do things will change it won't be so exciting anymore. Move on.
2007-12-01 20:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋