HELP!! i need advice ASAP?

Question

ok so their's this guy i met through a homegurl like during June
we've been talking ever since lol
ok so this Thanksgiving he asks me out
and i say yeah
the thing is he lives an hour away and has NO free time
he's either working or in school
so yeah its hard for us to see each other
im cool with it
cuz we always talk on the phone so yeah
so i was thinking and decided to ask him why he had asked me out
he told me because he thought i was cool =/ lol
the sh*t is i really ****** like him =[
and as we talked last night he told me he wasnt sure it was gonna work out
cuz we hardly see each other
he told me we could give it another week
and see what happens
but i dont know...
i dont wanna loose him
what should i do???
how can we make this work???
someone please help
i've never had these feelings towards anyone
yeah i've fallen for a few guys
but him
he's different =/

Answer 1

Hello there! First of all, I just want to tell you that it's great to actually "hear" from you again. Been a long time since you haven't got online, right? Base on your question and a little needing for some advice, now I know why....lol
You go, gurl! So, you have been trying to see someone lately, huh? Good for you...But I won't linger on to that...Now about your "problem".....
JUST TELL THE GUY THAT IF HE REALLY WANTS YOU, HE WILL DO ANYTHING SO THAT BOTH OF YOU CAN GET A CHANCE TO MEET & TALK & YOU MUST ALSO DO THE SAME, OKAY?
If you're asking how both of you can make this work? You must see each other, it's the only way, COME HELL OR HIGH WATER, if you don't want to lose each other...hope you get the point...yes, yes, you can talk endlessly to each other but it's not the same feeling as talking face to face all the time.
My friend, true love is not conditional...no matter if he's a thousand fu**ing miles away from you, if he really wants you, to hell with the thousand fuc*ing miles! right? yeah, so there you go...it's not really a big problem, by the way...but many young people just like you would really think this way, so, not-so-old friends like me are here to help you out, just what Tom Araya used to say, "We're help to help each other out. If you see someone going down, help him out, 'lright?" ROCK ON! \m/

Answer 2

GIVE IT THE WEEK LIKE HE SAID....TRY TO GET DOWN TO SEE HIM TOO. IF THATS THE REASON HE THINKS ITS NOT GOING TO WORK, THEN YOU SHOULD TRY HARDER TO GET TOGETHER. TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HIM, HE MIGHT NOT REALISE HOW YOU TRULY FEEL AND THINK ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS. DONT GET TOO UPSETIF IT DOESNT WORK, IT HASNT BEEN THAT LONG THAT YOUVE BEEN TOGETHER AND HE MIGHT HAVE REALISED HE RUSHED INTO IT IF HES ALREADY ASKING TO END IT SOOO SOON. OR MAYBE THERE IS SOMEONE THATS CLOSE TO HIS TOWN THAT CAUGHT HIS EYE AND HE IS WORRIED THAT YOU BOTH WERNT RIGHT AND THAT YOUR NOT TOGETHER ENOUGH TO BE IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND HE DOESNT WANNA LOOSE OUT ON MEETING SOMEONE. IDK...HOPE I DIDNT MAKE YOU MORE WORRIED, BUT THERE COULD BE LOTS OF REASONS. I DO HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR YOU BOTH.....JUST GIVE IT THAT WEEK AND REMEMBER TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL, THROW IT ALL OUT THERE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.

Answer 3

if you like him alot tell him to make time and see eachother or what is the point of going out, you have got to think do i want a boyfriend i really like but dont see or do i want a boyfriend that i see alot and can get to know eachother person to person, personally myself im a boy and i would love a girl that i can see often and go out for a drink and you know have a great time, its up to you if you want that aswell, if yes do something about it =]

i hope it all works out for you