hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious
2007-12-01 08:11:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Even though you broke up, in his mind you two are of still together. He still sees you, gets to make out with you, and have fun. And this is all on his terms. To any casual observer you are still an item. Even though the two of you are dating other people you haven't really broken up. If you are happy with the way things are then do nothing. If you want to break up with him for good then you have to stop taking his calls and never see him again. Personally I think he has a good thing going for himself, he gets his cake and gets to eat it too and there is no reason for you to complain to him about it, he would only tell you "We aren't together anymore, remember"?
2007-12-01 08:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by checkthisout! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot of people break up because the guy WON'T work. Fewer are upset because the man works a lot. I think he really cared and cares about you. I think he wishes you were back together but he knows he can't give you as much time as you want. So he settles for whatever time he can see you. Are you sure you're glad you broke up with him? I wonder.
2007-12-01 16:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious he feels comfortable...he doesnt want to let you go until he finds someone new to fill that space. i would walk away from it because you are just going to get hurt in the end if thats all thats happening. hes having his cake and eating it too
2007-12-01 17:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by surfcarolinagurl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to kick him to the curb..
2007-12-01 16:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋