What was the out come?
Would you do it again?
Did the guy seem to like you more or less for doing so?
2007-12-01 07:39:25 · 33 answers · asked by Lafurniture 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, and we have been dating for about 2 months now. I think that he may even be "the one".
Yes, I would do it again (if I had to).
The guy was very happy that I made the first move because I had the courage to take the actions necessary to pursue my own happiness. Just think, if I hadn't had the courage and he didn't either, where would we be now? I doubt we would be together. But, also, keep in mind that he had been throwing me hints for weeks that he was interested. Each situation is different.
All I can say is to follow your heart. It may or may not have a good outcome but if you don't try, you'll never know!
At the worst you will learn from the experience. At the best you'll find yourself very happy.
Good luck!
2007-12-01 07:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by msnite1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have.... and it wasnt much of a difference:
we ended up going to the movie and had a great time. Even got a few lip locks!
I might do it again... but it would depend on the guy. If the guy was all "oh im in charge" then probably not. But if he was sweet and caring then yes I would.
When i asked he really didnt seem to care. He was like oh ya sure ofcourse ill go! He probably liked me more for having the courage to ask him out before he asked me out.
2007-12-01 07:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to ask a guy on a date make sure you look good!! asking a guy out isn't something you have to do in person but don't make your friend do it for you! get his number and call him and just ask if you want to go to a movie. if he asks is it a date go ahead and say yes and if he doesn't let him in on what your doing and tell him its as a date. if a guy doesn't give a girl a chance then he is a jerk and you shouldn't want to be with a guy who says no to you anyway but he will probably say yes just keep your hopes up!!
2007-12-01 07:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love it when a woman is strong enough to ask them herself. The outcome is they usually last together for a long time and/or get married. If they didn't get married they would do it again. The guys usually like u more for doing so.
2007-12-01 07:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great when a girl ask a guy out for a date. If she does, however, she should do some research about the guys tastes in women. She may be in for a negative response if she doesn't.
2007-12-01 07:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I REALLY wish someone would ask me for once. I'd be so intrigued I would give most girls a chance. Just as long as she's not insane, or terribly ugly or something...
I was asked out in high school, but that's different. For some reason, girls don't have as big a problem approaching guys in high school
2007-12-01 07:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no not on a date but i have asked a few for his number like when we go out and see this cute guy and i or one of my friends like him and wants his number I'm always the one who has to ask cause im not so shy hahaha and i have asked someone to dance 3 years ago when i was grade 8
2007-12-01 07:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im obviously not a ladie but i have had a girl ask me out on a date. she was smart pretty and an individual, and she only proved those things further by asking me. dont be old fashioned women can do hat ever they want.
2007-12-01 07:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by beach kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked only because we were coo and i knew he liked me and was trying to figure me out to see if i liked him so i did that to make it obvious. I don't know if it was a date cause i just invited him to go bowling with me and a couple of cousins. He said yeah, we hang out alot more than ever now.
2007-12-01 07:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by cynical_dame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the outcome was great sometimes guys are shy and don't want to ask first so they think that you will so they wait. I would defiantly do it again it was a great blast. He liked me a lot he actually looked up tto me for doing this.
2007-12-01 07:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ahhhhhhhhhhh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋