Girl 24 years old marries guy almost 30 years older. Tells everyone he's the best guy ever. He's rich and gives her everything. She has more than most women twice her age -- at least financially. However, unbeknownst to the hubbie, she continues to contact ex-boyfriends/male friends (maybe 2-3, could be more) and tells them she still misses them, flirts with them, E-Mails them, and talks to them on the phone. Even tells at least one of them she still loves him. One of the guys she has even seen 3-4 times over the past year.
What is this behavior? Does anyone know of a similar situation? Isn't in love with husband as much as she lets on, immaturity, wants the attention even though she is married, what's up?
2007-12-01 05:30:28 · 3 answers · asked by Tiger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All of the above. There could be many reasons for her behavior. It sounds as if she has a low level of value development and is very immature. She is definitely playing games with her husband and the other guys she contacts. She wants her cake and wants to eat it too, as they say. She enjoys all the materials benefits from a husband who gives her everything, plenty of money, trips, gifts, cars...whatever. And she is willing to go along with the marriage to have these things..to a certain extent. But she continues to contact old boy friends for the illicit excitement. To put it bluntly she is selfish and doesn't care who she hurts. She is cheating, and needs a reality check.
2007-12-01 05:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, you just answered your own question. If a girl goes out with a guy 30 years older and he just "happens" to be rich, what do you think shes looking for? its quite obvious that she is a gold-digger and only wants the money. Being married wouldnt change anything except financially because now half the assets are hers, and if she was to cheat on him and find out, theres nothing he could do besides a divorce and in that case, half his money and assets are now gone. Yes this is immature and quite frankly the most selfish thing ive heard of these days but nothing is going to change about it because there will always be one woman out there who only cares about her wallet.
Ridiculous
2007-12-01 13:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by ThatNJguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is Gold Digger and a Major cheat
Cheers
2007-12-01 13:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Prince 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋