kids so time so limited. I feel like he always makes sacrifices for his ex, for example she has a date tonight so he's going to keep the kids when we were supposed to go out. I don't see him but once maybe every two weeks. Today I know for a fact she's taking his kids to a party and he'll have some time and I don't have my girls but he hasn't contacted me. He doesn't want me seeing anyone else but why do I feel like a trapped bird in a cage? He's a nice guy and I know he loves his kids but when is our time? He calls me everyday or sends me a text but I feel like I need more...am I being selfish?
2007-12-01 05:20:05 · 6 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him there are other guys out there that would love to give you 100% of their time......
2007-12-01 05:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is trying to be a good dad to his kids and taking responsibility for his past. So perhaps you should not be overly critical. Obviously if the two of you are going to have a relationship there needs to be time for you as well. Perhaps the two of you can find ways to do things together with the kids (from both sides) to get more time together.
However, if you are not comfortable with the relationship and don’t feel like it is one that is in line with what you are looking for then it would be best to break up now rather than waiting and making things more difficult for everyone.
2007-12-01 05:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by jerrys1960 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not selfish.What your feelings are about him and his purely a "side-relationship" with you.....with these on , you can't allow this relationship to go farther.Put an end to this. Six months ......well, that's quite a short period.You can mange to forget him . He can't be fully yours.What's the greatness in that if he is a nice guy , but, if he keeps neglecting your feelings and your needs?
I suggest, just ignore this relationship without creating any bitterness.
God Bless
2007-12-01 05:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need a nice talk with him. he'll appreciate the talk and not think of you as being stubborn/selfish =)
2007-12-01 05:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, leave him. he's holding on to you for the dessert while he still munches of the cake (his ex) an using the children for an excuse to still tap that @ss over there.
2007-12-01 05:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not... you need to kick em to the curb!!
2007-12-01 05:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋