So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs. He has a 7yr old son named charlie. We love him alot. But recently my boyfriend and I have been arguing alot and getting into verbal fights. We only see his son on the weekends, and we never fight in front of him. Charlie's mother (baby momma) found out about a really big fight we got into and now she wont let us see Charlie without supervision. It's so ridiculous. She thinks that we are making him emotionally distraught or something.....here's the kicker...The baby momma is dating my boyfriends brother. My boyfriend and his brother live together. The baby momma lives on her own. What should we do? I would never do anything to make Charlie(David's son) uncomfortably around us. Are they taking this too far?
2007-12-01 05:08:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
go on maury..
2007-12-01 05:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, like any concerned parent she's showing defense regarding the environment of her child. Don't fault her for that. Children pick up on everything, especially negative energy so it's quite possible she doesn't want her son to be exposed to that. Her own lifestyle and decisions has nothing to do with you or the dad, so dont let that dis credit the concern she has for the environment of her child. If you 3 cant sit and talk about then bring in a mediator to help you all decide your next steps
2007-12-01 13:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by RelentlessOne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop fight around the child, baby momma got a good point, if you are going to fight do it when the child is not their. If you and this guy can't get it right then your don't need to be together.
2007-12-01 13:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating someone who you fight with all the time?This is just a glimpse into what shacking or marriage will be like but much worse after your living together.
You didnt tell me what happened during the fights but I would say the mother's reaction is normal.Dating the brother though?
Thats gotta be really really awkward.
2007-12-01 13:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relatives talk so you and your boyfriend better put an end to this fighting and work things out in a mature way.
2007-12-01 13:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋